Why does a very possessive, controlling, and jealous man want to get married so quick?
And after they get married, do they usually become less possessive and controlling of their wife because supposedly "she belongs to him?"
Also, why does he say that he wants us to have kids right after we get married?
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Being with a controlling guy is the absolute worst. I wasted 2 years of my life being with a guy because I became too dependent on him and was scared to leave. When we finally broke up, I must say that was the best decision of my life. If he is controlling right now, it sounds like if you and him got married he would be even more controlling because you legally "belong" to him. I would say run far away from him. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.1