sincecixam an older mature understanding man. i would comfort you. i would just change the sheets. and the matter would be closed. i understand that these are things you cannot help. if you wanted take a nice hot shower in my bathroom. ill change the sheets. whatever clothes of mine fit you? you can wear. even keep. ill go to the store and get you tampons or if you need something else. and when your done showering. if your hungry your welcome to all the food in my fridge. or ill make you something. lie in bed all day if you want ill lay next to you for support.
I would reassure her that it's so not a big deal, and I would be thinking, "I hope she sees my reaction as mature and feels even more comfortable around me because—damn it —I like this girl."
That happened to me when I was with my friends with benefits (who was actually in love with me as he later confessed, and frankly I don't think any pure friends with benefits would have kept up with that). I didn't bleed all over the place but I was terribly grumpy and in pain so he offered me painkillers and just cuddled me instead and we just spent the night like that.
It's just a period everyone has one. The first time my boyfriend and I hung out I was on my period and it was so bad I couldn't get out of his bed. I made go buy me pads and everything. It's not a big deal, he'll get over it
That happened to me. I was so embarrassed. I said Id go home and he said it was fine. But i was mortified. So I said id sleep on the floor :(
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"Wow how do you live like that" (proceeds to wash sheets)
"oh my God! She's dead on my bed! They'll never believe I didn't kill her! I'm doomed!"
In reality, once he gets over the surprise, it's no big deal.
I'd find her some sweats to wear, wash the sheets, and maybe offer her some Tylenol.
It's not that anyone WANTS to wake up that way, but, hey, life is imperfect, and if we're together, then sooner or later, she's going to see me when I'm not at my best either. Hopefully she'd be as understanding as I'd try to be.
Well the first thing that would cross my mind would be "how the hell do you get rid of blood stains" but that would quickly change to concern for you, especially when you're so clearly distressed.
There's nothing to be ashamed of. He SHOULD COMPLETELY understand that what happened was out of your control and just unfortunately timed
i would be worried that your ok, with the passing out thing. and girls have periods its normal to me and expected, i would in no way be grossed out. i would help her, and id tell her not to be worried and embarrassed. and that you dont have to cry.
Having a period is an absolutely natural process for any girl to have. Instead you should help her in her time of need. Comfort her and say good words to her. In a relationship , the men is the protector. He has to give the protection , security and comfort to his partner. Such situations are a test to know whether your boyfriend has a loving , caring and sharing nature. If he passes this test , he is a good human.
I would think that this is normal and something that happens. Simply throw the sheets into the washer, pull out new ones to put on the bed. Snuggle up and go back to sleep while telling her how badass she is.
My boyfriend would have gotten me a hot bath and cleaned the sheets without being grossed out. No reason to be embarrassed
He should've asked you how you felt, or did he? Accidents happen!
not much ofc its blood i would think u were wounded or something
ofc i would have the exact type of tampons you use in my house
just in case u are sleeping in my house
"Poor her, let's wash the sheets and make her some tea"
Periods are 100% normal.
I'd find you a painkiller.
I would be like hmm ok, time for new sheets. lmao thats some funny shit
I would make sure that everything is ok with my girlfriend. That's about it
What I did when my ex stained my sheets was waking her up with chocolate and another clothes for her and sheets for the bed. It's nothing bad, it happens and there is little controll to it. And I dont see it as gross because it's normal.
Kick her out, that's gross.
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Jk, lol. It's normal, just an unfortunate event to deal with, no biggie.
She has, we live together. It's fine I don't mind it at all.
It's no problem oh cares.
Clean up.
Well how long have you guys been together?
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