How do girls feel about shy guys

[Anonymous]

girls is being shy a turn off for you? how do you feel about shy guys?

[That-Guy]

Even these girls say they like shy guys, the other outgoing guy will still get more dates then a shy guy ever will.

Lets say there's a girl who is of normal attraction. There's 10 guys in the room, 3 of which are go getters and hit on her, the others are shy guys (who seem cold and distant). She'll most likely choose 1/3 or none at all. The shy guy however sits in the corner, twiddling his thumbs hoping somehow she'll make to the move on him. Do you see what I'm painting?

If I was a girl, I'd rather let the guy make the moves rather then me risking rejection and make moves on the shy guys who take too much work to get to know and open anyways.

Yes, shy guys and girls are nice but they don't send the right signals making it clear they are even attracted to the person as shyness often gets misconceived as coldness.

". But if your too shy then it might have it's disadvantages."

Being softspoken is probably the better quality to have then shyness.

[Brando]

"Being softspoken is probably the better quality to have then shyness."....unfortunately, I never got to pick my traits lol. I hear people all the time say that the introverted guy will get his chance. and they may be right, but inside my introverted head I'm p*ssed off! I don't want to sit around and be the last one picked after a girl has been around and had her fun. I'm only comfortable with my introversion because its what's familiar, not because I like it...i HATE it

[persweet]

A lot of guys are shy, and a lot of girls love shy guys. The only problem is, it's also the same with girls, a lot of girls are also shy. In the stereo-typical world that is movies, tv shows, etc, the guy always makes the first move, maybe that's what girls like, I know I do. So when you're shy, and the girl is shy and waiting for you to make a move on her, things can get a little bit frustrating for the both of you.

I definitely like shy guys, because they tend to be shy because they're wrapped in their own thoughts, possibly of you all the time. It's also a plus to know that if a shy guy has the guts to ask you out, you'll know he must really likes you or that never would have happened. Then they're always very sweet to you for fear of losing you, or even to have to stand up to another girl (lol,) and from definite experience they seem to be always on the protective side, which a lot of girls love.

[kipperlove3]

I like a guy whos shy right now and quite honestly it sucks. it was cute at first and I did like it because he wasnt like talking to me then hitting on some other girl 5 minutes later. But it got old fast, because he's shy I always make the first move I asked him for his number and I ALWAYS text him first and we've been "talking" for over a year now and he hasn't made a move yet he's asked me to hang out once but we never did because he never followed through and I'm in the process of giving up hope because yes I like him and I wanted to have a relationship with him but he's too scared to talk to me and hang out with me and I know he's scared to ask me out, his best friend told me that he likes me he's just afraid to ask me out and I'm done with waiting. So if I were a guy I would just be outgoing as possible because girls find confidence attractive.

[GradeAPotato]

then just make the first move, my case is a bit similar to urs, I only started with my boyfriend cuz he is my classmate from many classes, and knowing he is a bit shy, when I start to notice him glancing at me and talking to me a lot more than our mutual friends, I started giving him strong hints in chat like kissy faces, and hugging him in person, and clinging on to his arm, then at some point Im tired of hiding under the cover of friendship I lead the conversation towards hinting him to confess. It didn't take long with obvious hints that boosts his confidence and letting him know i do like him. though he was still had a bit of doubts when he confessed but my hints were enough for him to at least take the chance. It doesn't always have to be the guy taking the lead. If you really like this guy, make it obvious, cling all over him if you have to lol, just trying to say, once the relationship is established they get way better, so be bold and tell him or give your hints!!!

[grace123]

well we don't mind all that much... we actually think its sweet... but when it stops them from approaching the girl, is when we get annoyed. girls have a tendency to stop liking guys if they don't show any interest in a certain amount of time. I like this guy and he is on the shy side. incredibly sweet and smart and HOTT! but I am leaning away from liking him because he keeps giving me little signs but has never made a move. its annoying. also, girls are suckers for sweet hearts. so go for the whole romantic thing. if there is a girl you like, go for it. say something really sweet and somewhat cheesy to show how you really feel. it would be really hard for us to turn that down.

[Brando]

As a reserved guy that's where my problem is. if I'm awkward trying to explain my feelings, then I WILL come off as odd. I'm not trying to use it as an excuse, but its just how I am. the girls that I did try to talk to back in high school didn't receive me well (not their fault) and I just don't really have the desire to do that again. plus, during that age there were plenty of friends that a girl had. so how is some random, quiet guy supposed to make a mark in the middle of carefree socializing?

[crazygurl93]

i think guys who are shy tend to have a little more mystery about them.

they keep me interested longer, this way I want to talk to them on my own.

however, there is a extreme difference between shy and un-confident. I want you to be able to stick up for yourself and place your own opinion but that doesn't mean that you have to be the class clown out going guy either.

[BubblesOfTheNight]

Ah...the shy guys :P. It is cute, and it usually means they are nice and a bit more modest. I have no problems with shy guys since I am a pretty patient person (this guy has been shy around me for about six months and he just started to get comfortable around me). I think it's because I understand what it's like to be shy.

Shyness is fine as long as it isn't overkill. Unfortunately, I have to analyse guys and deem whether or not they or shy or distant. Usually, I am patient with a shy guy who I know likes me. They tend to make it obvious in different ways like blushing, then I am patient.

[Running4hills]

I think shy guys can get a lot more girls they just don't know how to work their "shyness" to their advantage. Me personaly I like a shy guy at first but as I get to know him I don't want him to be shy anymore with me but if he's shy with other girls id think its the most adorbale thing ever! its only gona make me want him more. basicly what I'm saying is as long as he feels comfortable with me in the end but he still manages to trip on words with other girsl no problem.i love it! Especialy if those girls thought he was hot.

Girls LOVE mysterious guys. use your not talking because ur shy to ur advantage. Make it look mysterious rather than dorky.

[Shydude91]

How? By making it look like i'm just a lone wolf?

[iminlovewithcam]

when being a shy girl its kinda important you don't like shy guys, because then sometimes there's too much shyness and awkwardness. I think its important to be with someone who can help you grow in areas of life, including emotionally. I think its important for a shy girl to be with a not so shy guy. just personal opinion.

[DoNt-PaNiC]

Shy guys are more my preference, They are more respectable and kind to me in any case. That's just my personal opinion. Some guys that are very outgoing are a bit to much for me. A guy I'm crazy about is shy, but he chats really nicely with me except today, he was fidgeting all over the place and looked down a lot but ag I don't know why, maybe its because he knows I like him.

[Shydude91]

He was nervous, please understand him, he's very sensitive.

[fashonista-3000]

shy guys don't turn me off it's just that I like a guy that it's not affraid to be touchy and a little freaky because I'm a freaky and it would be hard to like you . if ur shy.and I mean shy guys their cool but I just don't see myself daiting one.

[michelle29]

honestly, yes. because I have this suitor once that is so shy, he even lets his friends to pass a message for me and he lets his friends do all the work. I don't want that. if you like her why not just tell it directly to her because that's what all girls wants, somebody would tell them DIRECTLY that they liked her, I mean what there to get shy of? you like her, so what.

[ladygothicka]

I don't mind a shy guy, they do tend to be rather cute. However if the guy never talks, then that's a complete turn off. If he's shy at first but opens up that's really cute and sexy.

[lilmama]

No quite the opp. I like shy guys they tend to be way sweeter and easier to get along with. But if your too shy then it might have it's disadvantages.

[Belle1991]

persnally I think its cute but if they can't get over being shy around me and we've been dating for more than a month it gets annoying.

[ALWAYSclassy]

It's kind of a turn off because you don't really know what they're thinking. Also I'm kind of shy so I'm naturally drawn to a more outgoing type.

[bellybuttonlint]

Since when are you suppose to read minds?

[Anonymous]

I like shy guys, they are usually more polite, and more romantic in the sense that they will listen. Since I'm a shy girl, for some reason I like shy guys to, becuz I understand that really a shy person does open up, and can turn out to a lot more fun than a person whose outgoing, not that there's anything wrong with outgoing people, its just what I prefer.

[Anonymous]

no, there are other things that are more important. shy guys just means I have to take the initiative and to a point, I might resent it. but I look for other traits too. doesn't matter as much

[FreakieRune]

i Just LOVE shy guys infact I am in love with one right now theyre realyy great I just feel I wanna Hug them .. they are the best ever plus they got stuff people don't know about them ! . they are mysteries and cute . x

[Shydude91]

Girls like to hug me, i don't know why.

[ambeybabey]

Being shy myself, I usually go for the shy guys because they are cute and modest. they don't pressure you into things most other guys do. I'm not saying all outgoing guys are bad, just with my experence shy guys are more my type.

[Anonymous]

honestly I love shy guys.! they are so much nicer than the other guys.! the other guys just want to get laid.( true tho) --xo

[Optical711]

Shy guys want to get laid too. When I was shy around girls that contributed to my shyness; I was ashamed that I wanted a girl's body. The reasoning behind that was that girls don't like guys who are intrested in their bodies, which of course makes absolutely no sense.

[Anonymous]

its cute at first, but when it gets pathetic is when they can't even talk to the girl or ask to hang out with them.

[Shydude91]

So we're pathetic, that was mean :(

[skootz]

there fun to corrupt lmao

[Shydude91]

Ok but please don't scare us too much.

[TinyKatie]

i like shy guy