It sounds like he's also an introvert?
I struggle with a similar situation. My little sister is the same way and she's already attempted suicide. She's been getting better but I think that might be because of the school she was going to. Middle school was rough for her. She didn't fit in, she was also bullied and picked on. We had a traumatic childhood that we couldn't talk about to anyone. Her psychiatric was also not very helpful.
You know what does work though? Whenever I remind her about how much I love her, it really cheers her up. If she's contemplating suicide, I tell her how much I'd miss her and I describe it in detail. It sounds like he's lonely. Feeling lonely can make you feel unwanted, they feel as if they died no one would care. It's important to sit him down and really tell him how much you love him and how much you would hate to see him harm himself. Even if it involves a cry fest. Let him know that you'd miss him and how you couldn't live without him.
If there's a way for you to change his school and psychiatrist that might help. Maybe you can talk to his school counselors and have them give you advice on how he can "fit in." But if I were you, I'd send him to a magnet/charter school. My sister went to the same hs I went to, it was a design magnet school and people were really accepting. It wasn't the typical high school.
Other than that, all I can say is that you're doing a great job. I'm still struggling with the same issue, though so... BUT at least she's in her first few weeks of college and loving it. She's 8 hours away, but she's loving it and she sounds happy.
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You sound like such an amazing brother.
For a 16 year old boy, he needs to be social, he needs to be active, he needs to pick himself up and chose to live.
I reccomend getting into a soccer group or something in your area.
And don't tolerate "i don't want to" or "i don't feel like it" you get him involved because once he's there and makes new friends his happiness will pick up.
It's good to mix with a whole new set of people.
I also STRONGLY reccomend joining a life teen group (you don't have to be religious) but people in those church groups are his age and extremely nice to everyone. It would give him a good chance to make friends and find his reason to live.
The more closed off he gets, the deeper into depression he gets. So hold BBQ's and group get-to-gether's. Have your mates come round and talk with him, play some cricket, make him feel like one of the guys.
Does the school he attends know off his situation? do they have a solid bullying program in place?
Make sure your brother knows that what ever he is feeling now, it will pass, and in 2 years when you look back you'd think it silly.
Every morning when he wakes up tell him "You are special. You have a purpose. You mean something to me"
The Key: have him get involved in life! because it is so worth living.
Good luck to you and your brother.
its good that you celebrated his life and I hope you will be alight.
god bless
Sad news. I'm very sorry. What did he do? Swallow pills? You are right, you shouldn't risk getting behind bars when your brother needs you, but you can hire guys who'll beat the sh*t out of his bullies. Do they bully him verbally? Or physically? If they bully him physically, why don't they throw them out of school? Those cowards team up against a guy who's 3 years younger? That's so pathetic. I hope he'll get better. Good luck to you and your brother.
Beat the sh*t out of his bullies. Team up with your friends and your brother (groups are more intimidating). Make the bullies beg for mercy in front of many people. Force the main bully to kiss your brother's shoes. Believe me, they won't bully him again.
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I don't know about your exact situation but definitely get him out of the house and go on some fun adventures. You're being supportive which is already a step in the right direction.
Oh My God. I'm so so so sorry :'( Oh My God
How could this happen?
Oh My God
Are you okayyes its a tradgety but stop wasting other peoples time. this isn't important. every1 has there own problems
I'm so happy for you :D Keep going <3
Good on ya mate, hang in there.
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