Seems like when I was a wallflower who didn't know how to do much else other than grind and wobble my tushie, guys flocked to me. But now that I've actually been trained how to dance, I notice a lot of stares but way less approaches.
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well a lot of guys aren't really good at dancing so of course those guys are going to be intimidated by girls who really knew how to dance and know they couldn't match there skills or keep them satisfied on the dance floor. I agree guys are more likely to just look at girls like you and not try and talk to you. but that being said guys are still attracted to you so maybe you need to start approaching some of the lookers I mean guys you find attractive that are looking at you , why not try and talk to these guys if you know they already are interested
I guess it's because I've gotten to the point where it is really difficult for a man to capture my attention. I'm not jaded, but I experienced a guy who really raised the bar. He treated me so well that it didn't make other guys look worth less, but it made it easy for me to notice lower quality. I always have to feel a guy out by his body language and stuff before I'll approach him. I can't stand touchy feely guys or guys who ho it up on the dance floor then try to talk to you.
I experienced something similar. I meet this girl last year and become really interested in her , not that she was best looking girl I had ever saw but was just way more into her than average girl and hard to get into a lot of the other girls around here after I had been that into her she just appealed to me a lot more and raised the standard in terms of what a single girl could offer. so its hard to lower your standards once you've experienced something better than average
I feel ya! Just try not to be totally dismissive. I think it can really help protect your heart, but don't be completely unwilling to give other girls a chance. This is something I'm trying to work on myself, but I sincerely am disinterested unless there's 1.) something special about the guy 2.) there's some intense chemistry. He has to really catch my eye.
Well, I think most guys that are in clubs and what not want the girls that just grind on them a bit. For one, it stimulates them. Secondly, most are just there trying to sleep with some girl, and the type of girl that grinds, twerks, etc are the type of girl that sleep with some random guys, so...
What kind of dancing have you been trained in anyway?
One of my guy friends has told me he's way more attracted to girls who can actually dance, but he won't try to dance with them because he's hopeless. He also said its a big turn off when a girl thinks she can dance or is trying really hard but I'm sure you don't fall into that category. You might have to approach a few guys yourself, I'm sure they'd love that!
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Nope not intimidated, if she wants to Tango, let's do it.
I would be intimidated to dance with them. But not approach them after! This
nope not at all... im not that kind of dude that gets offended or intimidated often...
Nope. Not trying to be the best at dancing.
*applause* I love that confidence! :D
Thanks! I just hang by the bar and put out the vibe.
lol, that's cute.
I'm sure they are
I'm a girl and I know I am
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