Once my boyfriend succeeded in sweeping me off my feet , he lost Intrest and changed for the worst!?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I've read lots of story's all starting off the same. "My boyfriend has changed "...
he (use) to treat me like a princess and now he's basically a disrecpectfull pig. !!!
So my quoestion is what do you do when you fall for a person and love them ! BUT there not acting like the person you fell for..
Your attached to the person I see my boyfriend everyday we live together. He's stopped all the fun things you's did together and thinks that he has you now so he doesn't have to woo you !!!

I've heard these story's like my own basically. And I wonder to myself what happens did it work out or not !! If he stops showing Intrest and you act indepeant give him space let him miss you , ignore him and show him that you don't need him.
Do men gain repect again.
My boyfriend still finds me attracted I no that but I feel like he just doesn't want anyone else to have me. But if he's not going to make me smile someone else will. So I would love to hear people that went true this.. ! And do they change?
My boyfriend doesn't take me out. And acts so selfish.
For example christimas when we first met he bought me a handbag that was 400pounds.
Then a year down the road I can't get him to even bring me for dinner , he has it handy he sees me everyday he knows what I'm doing. He doesn't have to woo me anymore. So I've explained my feeling and broke up with him
Now
Only time will tell if he truly did love me right?
I'm going to ignore him let him know how it feels. I don't expect the honey moon stage all the time but I expect to be treated and respected !
Advise please. Ps I'm not saying all men do this !!..

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Shhhh I don't want to hear all that nature stuff !!! I just want my question answered lol

[Anonymous]

Here's the deal- your boyfriend, RIGHT NOW, is showing you his true colors, who he truly is.
He never was the guy that swept you off your feet, nor will he ever truly be that guy.
This happens all the time.
You are in more control of your feelings and emotions than you realize. You aren't a slave to this guy- to his true colors. He was never who you fell for. It's time to move on. You CAN and you DESERVE a guy that will be who you fall in love with, truly.
Don't hold your breath on this boyfriend.

[Cmorgan1628]

He still probably loves you. He has just lost sight of what is important and started taking you for granted. I did the same thing and broke up with my ex because I thought she didn't do enough and caused problems etc.. Now I'm having to try so hard to win her back. You never know what you have until it's gone. Don't breakup but let him know you aren't happy and have concerns about certain issues because they make you unhappy. Hopefully he will listen.

[lonerider]

Law of nature... attraction fades off as time passes. BIologically speaking we are not meant to be married. Marriage and committment are man made things. not natural.. So these are biological impulses.. to lose interest after mating. I am against treating your girlfriend disrespectfully. but you have to understand that in most of the cases.. the attraction just fades away.

[Mesonfielde]

Actually, there are animals, including certain types of monkeys that are monogamous until their children are capable of surviving on their own.

[lonerider]

I know that :) but my point is.. it's very rare. The general tendency is being polygamous.

[Mesonfielde]

The "general tendency" is down to the person and how valuable they find their relation to one specific person.

[lonerider]

I was pointing out the unconscious biological impulse.. You are talking about emotional bonding. Totally unrelated. Dont go off topic please

[Metal189]

remember that you were in the honeymoon phase. that eventually ends