Do guys like bigger girls at all, or they must be skinny?

[mandee_ily]

I am not fat, but I'm not skinny either. I'm kinda chubby, but I am still beautiful no lie. But, I always feel like the weight is holding me back from everything.

[thejaded]

You are beautiful. Honestly, it really does not matter if you're chubby or not, as long as you keep healthy. Increased weight can increase the chance for an early onset of cardiovascular diseases or other complications. Its always a good idea to maintain an active lifestyle which means a minimum of 30 minutes of moderate exercise to get the heart pumping each day. When I look for a mate, to be honest, I would want him to care about his health so we will be able to do a lot together in present time and future. I used to be chubbier too, but when I enrolled myself into nursing school, I realized that there are so many young people now suffering from high cholesterol, hypertension, and diabetes. People are having strokes and myocardial infarction much earlier than it used to be... Stay healthy and beautiful- that's the message I'm trying to send out.

[JesusFreak15]

o my goodness I'm kinda chubby too and I'm wondering the same thing...and I also feel like the weight is holding me back too. but God made us the way we are, and remember that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you! I would like to lose weight, but other times I think, "no, God likes me the way I am." but then again I feel as if I have to lost weight xD

[mandee_ily]

oh my gosh, me too! lol, I'm like ehhhh... but I hate myself. so.. I don't know what to do.

[Kattrain]

God didn't make you chubby... your diet does. Sorry but that's like saying 'god made my hair be (length) long. I'm not going to cut it!'

This isn't an attack on you but god doesn't predetermine weight.

[FreeLeave]

There is a difference between Big Mama chubby, previous Oprah chubby, and new Oprah.

1.Big Mama has no chance with meeting a guy because we picture her lying around the house all day while we have to do everything.

2. Previous Oprah chubby is merging on the impossible to date, but she gets around; a few guys would be fine with that.

3. The new Oprah is looking WAY better!

There is hope. There is always some hope. You have to fight it until that man comes around that will appreciate you. Once you have him than you can SPLURGE on any food and not care anymore :)

[CasaNorba]

sorry to sound like a philistine, but I have no other way to express it. but I love big girls(not too big either), because the way I see it is "I'm a MAN, and only a Dog wants a bone ". I'd always found voluptuous women 10X more attractive because their female element stand out more, making them sexier. Right now I'm single, but I guaranteed you that if I had a voluptuous girlfriend I be the happiest man alive, because I will have an outstanding sexual life, as I find it more fun making love to a woman who has extra, tendered flesh, etc.

[xxAdrianna]

Of course you're beautiful :) Every guy will like something different, skinny, chubby, big boobs, small butt, the list goes on forever, but genuinely attracting a good guy has a lot to do with being confident in yourself first. If you're feeling like your weight is holding you back form being all you can be, then start working out or switching up the way you eat to healthier things. I understand that people have different metabolisms and so on, but if you're really dedicated to making a commitment to how you feel about yourself then you can completely do it :) xx.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

My last girlfriend had a belly on her but it didn't bother me. Men don't expect models, well at least I hope not.

[mandee_ily]

i hope not too. some guys do, it's stupid..

[Brentley]

I was wondering the same thing for the longest time. I've found that each guy likes something different. If you feel like it's holding you back and you don't want to be "kinda chubby" then work out and eat a good diet.

[gonaners16]

If you feel that it is holding you back, why don't you lose some weight? If it would make you feel better about yourself, why not?

[Thiezz]

You look more than 'kinda' chubby in that picture. I don't like it at all.

[xxAdrianna]

Lets not be a jerk...

[snackeyg]

I prefer "kinda chubby". But what does kinda chubby mean to you?

[Anonymous]

I real don,t care if a girl is big or skinny if I like her it is because of how she is and not how big she is or how skinny she is.

[Anonymous]

my guyfriend loves chubby girls...he said theyre more desirable and have things to grab onto