Why am I scared of men?

[Anonymous]

it's pretty much self explanatory. I've had plenty of oppurtunitys to be with men but I'm scared for some silly reason. I don't know what's wrong with me! I've never had a serious relationship because I always seem to drop it before it goes any further. one of my male friends recently commented on how I'm looking for "mr perfect" as opposed to "mr best fit" and that's why I'm single. why?! how can I change my attitude? xx

[toulouse]

Well why do you need Mr anyone. Its not as tho guys are your oxygen supply. You can afford to let it happen in its own tim. This is no emergency to be sure. If she is that desperate that she must settle for the lesser evil, just be glad you do not share her outlook. Anyways do not worry. You are young and its highly possible you have not met a guy you are comfortable with. If you actually like the guy you feel very differently about things. VERY. No worries just be true to yourself and it will happen. :)

[Trihill]

you need to find a guy that can go at your pace...they do exist...don't let your guard down, mr. right is out there