Why is my boyfriend acting so dame wride ?

[Anonymous]

been with my boyfriend for two years now been through a hell of a lot togther. We had a misscaidge 3months ago. Through out the realtionship he done a lot of crime and had no plan in working and over night he has given up crime and working 7 days a week 7 to 6pm why the change ?

[cazza3]

Firstly my sympathies, I know how hard a miscarriage can be.

Maybe because he's finally decided to get his sh*t together, that the miscarriage made him realize he wants to be a dad someday and decent one. Or maybe its his way of dealing with the loss. A miscarriage can be a very difficult thing for guys to deal with and working every hour might be his way of sorting it out in his head or trying to forget about it completely

[Anonymous]

maybe he feels guilty you lost the kid cause you guys were always fighting?

[Asker]

we don't reall fight just crime got in the way . Being out togther and him geting beaten up and haveing the place broken into and siting in hospital 2 x other this

[buttnick]

maby the misscarage made him realis the important things in life and want to change for the better.

[Asker]

you think? It kinda freaking me out ha ha he worked a full week and rides 12 miles to get there ha ha what do I do ?

[buttnick]

Yeah something like that can have a big effect on people much of the time negative but in this case it seems like it's changed him in a positive way. what do you mean what do you do do suspect something bad is going on?