i was in a relationship for 2 years. he was cheating for the WHOLE last year like crazy and I was so blind and brainwashed that I didn't realize until the end. he never admited it he kept denying denying but it was so obvious in hindsight and I even had proof and yet he would still deny it and call me crazy to my face when I confronted him. some people will never confess to cheating.
one thing I can tell you though is my gutt the whole year felt he was cheating. and I was right.
99% of the time if you seriously think the person might be cheating/ cheated then you are right. so if you are suspecting cheating I know it sounds cliche but honestly they probably are. because a gutt instinct is simply your subconsious picking up on signals that are off.
secondly if you are broken up. most people pick fights and blame you and make you feel guilty for the break up to shift the focus off them that they are broken up. then like a week later will text saying they miss you. or make it constantly seem like the break up is your fault.
bottom line is if someone breaks up with you. they are running the risk of someone else stealing you. and if they are doing this its as if you want someone else and don't care if you are with someone else too.
bottom line is if someone can dump you once they can do it again and will. I would say leave it over.
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If you feel you need to know the person she cheated with, that's your choice. But it's a common question in those situations, even though if we don't know the person, we would want to know who that person was, if feelings were involved or if it was just physical, ... It's not something you just get over, trust is damaged and trust is also needed in friendships. Just ask her what you want to know about it. If you don't want to know the story or person or details, don't ask them. But if I were you, I'd keep on wondering who that other person was.
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well..no because that's the past. If you can't trust her otherwise, then ask about it but if she doesn't want to tell you don't make her. In my opinion it will only make you angrier if it's a close friend.
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