So I asked this girl out. She didn't quite say yes, and she didn't quite say no. She told me we would keep in touch and gave me her Facebook information.
Its been two or three days and I haven't heard form her since she added me on Facebook. Does this sound like a hopeless case?
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What do you mean by ask out?
Did you ask her to do a specific activity?
If you did, then this is what I suggest you should have done, based on my experience:
You: Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to do so-and-so on (insert day)
Her: Some variation of what happened here.
You: Okay, let me know by (insert two days before proposed day)
Then don't bring it up again. See if she'll bring it up herself on the proposed deadline. I did this with a girl who did that to me and never brought it up again and she brought it up herself on that day---it worked so well that I didn't even mention it on the deadline and it was AFTER I saw her on that day did she call me and tell me she could go.
In your situation as it is right now, I say just back off. Give it another week and see if you hear from her. If you do, take it from there. If you don't, TRUST ME, she isn't worth it, because she'll be pulling this all the time in your relationship. It's better to cut ties early than to end up liking her too much and having her do this to you. I speak from personal experience.1