so my boyfriend sent me this link on how to make your boobs bigger and I was like, um, what are you trying to say? and he was making it seem like i was overreacting and that it was just a 'joke". I was really kinda hurt actually. i know i said to him i don't like my breasts, but still when he sent that link it made me feel worse. i honestly felt like crying. and he was like, you need to work on your body and breasts. I thought he liked my body the way it was and now he's saying i need to 'work on it.' he didn't get why i was hurt, because i said I didn't like my boobs, so he thinks it's okay to send me a link like that.
this kind of changes the way i feel about him now. i feel even worse about my breasts and in the past he's even said to me i have big feet, which is another thing i've always been self conscious about.
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i feel like he doesn't understand the hurtful aspect of what he's saying. he doesn't say you're not valuable but that this would make him happy...0
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That's very hurtful.
The fact that he doesn't understand the pain he caused you shows he lacks empathy.
I think you should once again tell him how he made you feel when he said those things. If he still manages not to see the light , I got to say I know you can do much better girl.
You deserve a man that loves every inch of you. Someone that makes you feel good. Someone that makes you feel beautiful.
He's picking on things you can't change like your boob size , that's really low of him.1