Women always get offended when I explain why I wouldn't date a single mom (I am 25, btw)... especially a single mom between the ages of 19-25. Instead of telling you why I have issues with single moms... I will just show you. Here is a text message from a single mom I was recently talking to (didn't know she was one until the last minute):
Me: What happened to your daughter's dad?
Her: We weren't good for one another. He didn't treat me right and I stopped trusting him after a while because he became very dishonest and started cheating. I just felt like he didn't appreciate me.
Me: If you had so many problems with him... where did your daughter come into play?
Her: I didn't know he was a cheater until after my daughter was born. I felt like I ignored a lot of red flags during our relationship because our sex life covered a lot of our issues.
THIS IS WHY I do not date single moms. They know the relationship is shit anyway, but they still have a baby with the guy and then start wondering why they are single and why men don't want them.
Since finding out she is a single mom, I'm not talking to her anymore. I don't have time for it.
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You are a very judgmental person.
Of course it's easy for you to judge but you've never been in that situation.
As someone that's been exposed to a various amount of people, I can stand before you and say, you can know someone for 10 years and STILL not truly know them.
Some people are good at hiding skeletons in their closet.
You shouldn't judge someone based on the fact that they found their relationship wasn't ideal for them.2
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