What does this girl want from me? Is there a nice way to tell her to leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl who gives me a lot of attention. All the time she is trying to start conversation and asking me stupid questions and trying too hard. I try not to be a jerk and I talk to her and most of the time its fun but then from one day to the next, she starts being all difficult and bitchy and she claims its because I'm too clingy and I don't leave her alone. So fine, I leave her alone and mind my own business but if I dare being quiet or ignoring her when she is in a chatty mood, then I'm being mean to her and I make her feel like crap.

She believes she has this power to figure me out, she claims she can tell when I'm in a bad mood just by looking at my face and I', not entitled to EVER be upset or having a bad day because she takes it as me being mean to her.

WHat pisses me off is that she will go on and on talking to me, teasing me and treating me like she has known me for years and just seeming too comfortable with me but when I talk to her, she claims that I'm trying to put the moves on her because I talk too much, while she is the one getting upset when I don't talk to her and being all clingy and just paying too much attention to my facial expressions and overall behavior. One time I told her to please stop bugging me and let me mind my own business and she almost cried and I had to hear how mean I was being. Is she a crazy person or what does she want from me?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you're just not being real and she can sense it. Be real and go with the flow stop fighting her for the sake of fighting her. Your true emotions are apparent in your face whther you want to admit it or not. Stop lying to yourself. I think you're mean too.

[mashura]

Lol OK she likes you and is trying to engage you. She sounds like a huge headache. Just tell her your not interested like that and she will back off.

[Asker]

I've told her that but she sees my friendliness and joking around as me being interested in her and I hate when she tells me she doesn't like me like that, when she is the one starting the whole conversations and going around getting pissed because I don't talk to her. If I talk, I'm interested and if I don't talk, I'm a jerk, I don't know what she wants from me.

[mashura]

I would say be a jerk. I know I can't believe I said it either, but sometimes ya just gotta be that way. Ignore her, avoid her. Do anything that conveys you are not interested. Flat out tell her she is annoying. Sometimes us girls need a wakeup call. Yes she will probably hate you.

[Anonymous]

She has a huge crush on you and is too immature to act normal.