What does it mean if he doesn't ask me out on the weekends?

[Anonymous]

We've been out twice in the span of three weeks, both times a weekday. It's never last minute plans. We text consistently. Last week I asked him to hang out on Friday and he said he would let me know because he didn't know what his weekend would look like. The he ended up going out with his buddies without ever letting me know if we were going to hang out or not. I had a feeling we weren't gonna go out so I went bar hopping with my friends instead. Now here's the deal, we ended up texting the whole night (I hit him up first) and we're going out again next week, again on a weekday. Wth? I'm confused. What's with this guy and weekends? Is he into me? Am I a backup plan? Should I pursue this? I do like him.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't have initiated the text that night that he didn't give you the courtesy of letting you know what they plan was. Puts you in the position for him to think he can treat you that way & you're fine taking what you can get from him.

Go ahead & meet him since you have plans, but after that I would let him initiate asking you out again, but say you're busy if he asks you on another weeknight, then suggest you go out on the weekend. If he keeps putting you off it sounds like he may have a girlfriend or being seeing someone.

[vmw2008]

You're not a top priority for him. He likes you, but not enough to give up his big nights out with his buddies and meeting new girls. You can keep going out with him if you like, just don't put all your eggs in one basket. Date other guys too, and enjoy those weekend nights with your girls.

[R3alGuy]

It was kind of a jerkish thing to do for him not to let you know, BUT he clearly likes you because he's dating you. It's a one time thing, I wouldn't stop because of one decision. Next week, ask him about what he does on weekends and maybe say "we should do something on the weekends sometime!" Then see his reaction and let me know what it was like if you could. But this way you can plant the seed letting him know you want to hang out on weekends. Does this help?

[cheesesteak7]

In this case, maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable doing a real formal weekend date or having you around his regular group?

[Anonymous]

Instead of asking him to hang out on a particular day, ask him why he doesn't ask you out for the weekends. Leave it up to him to decide which day works best for him.