Bugging no a little friendly text to say hi and not asking any major questions or pushing for anything. If a women says she wants to be alone right now, she might mean just that night not forever, difficult to say without knowing the person or context.
We were hanging out since august.. only once or rarely twice a week. I notice she was becoming distant... possibly losing interest. Unlike past relationships this time I began to see those red flags so I told her I was going to take a step back. We talked she said she "likes" me and we make each other laugh, but she needed to be alone. I made it clear that I had started to have feelings for her, but I told her I understood. I plan on doing exactly what you suggest.
I won't constantly bug her.. that has completely back fired in the past (live and learn) I also don't like ending things badly with people so. I'll continue to say hi from time to time. I understand people like attention... unfortunately they always come looking for it when they feel alone. I am guilty of that.
The reason most men don't chase women, its called sexual harassment! men have better things to do that to defend their actions because a woman who plays "hard to get" can't figure out a man's intentions
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yes I do, shame most blokes don't do it anymore!
But by being chased what do you mean? if a girl says "i want to be alone right now"... should a guy keep bugging her?
Bugging no a little friendly text to say hi and not asking any major questions or pushing for anything. If a women says she wants to be alone right now, she might mean just that night not forever, difficult to say without knowing the person or context.
We were hanging out since august.. only once or rarely twice a week. I notice she was becoming distant... possibly losing interest. Unlike past relationships this time I began to see those red flags so I told her I was going to take a step back. We talked she said she "likes" me and we make each other laugh, but she needed to be alone. I made it clear that I had started to have feelings for her, but I told her I understood. I plan on doing exactly what you suggest.
I won't constantly bug her.. that has completely back fired in the past (live and learn) I also don't like ending things badly with people so. I'll continue to say hi from time to time. I understand people like attention... unfortunately they always come looking for it when they feel alone. I am guilty of that.
The reason most men don't chase women, its called sexual harassment! men have better things to do that to defend their actions because a woman who plays "hard to get" can't figure out a man's intentions
sometimes. no I lie, yes lol
Ok but in your opinion where do you draw the line between enjoying a guy chasing you and being annoyed that he is chasing you?
Well its like at first its flattering but after a while it gets annoying I guess.