awww, girl i know how you feel. i was 18 when i got into a relationship and broke it off when i was 25. it was abusive in all ways, but besides all of that, i felt like i wasn't doing enough! we took cruises every year and that was cool, but it still wasn't enough. when we broke up, i went on solo vacations to dr, costa rica (2xs), and puerto rico (3xs). it was the most freeing feeling ever! It was so good, in fact, that my next relationship, me and my partner will go on trips together (and one little mini trip alone or with our own friends)
how long have you two been together? He is 29, so has had a bit of time to "live" If you aren't already, you guys should travel. do a cruise, a little weekend getaway. you said he takes you out occasionally, but that is not enough. its easy for people to get complacent in relationships. its also easy for people to lose themselves in relationships too.
Don't let your life just be your boyfriend. Have hobbies you do alone, have hobbies you do with friends. having a relationship with yourself, in addition to the one you have with your boyfriend will help with the feelings your having. If your feeling this now, you will def be feeling this later on.
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Why can't you go out and do those things? Unless its having lots of casual sex, you can do anything anyone else is doing if you choose to while still in a serious relationship.
Apparently you plan to leave your boyfriend so you can do stuff like go get totally wasted and have half-conscious sex with men you couldn't recognize again.
What do you expect to have done? Cured cancer? Gone on mercenary missions fighting Russians or Communists? If you've got a family you love, and your boyfriend is a solid guy who cares about you and treats you well, what are you missing?
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