First you need to find out if the baby is his, or the guy that she cheated with.
If he got her pregnant in January, then there should be a baby around somewhere, or there will be one around this week.
If he dumped her in May, then she would have been 4 or 5 months pregnant,
and she would have cheated on your Bf while she was pregnant.
Of course you have to ask him about it.
If he dumped her while she is pregnant, then I would be wary of his lack of commitment in a very serious matter.
If he hasn't told you about this, then he isn't very truthful, and is hiding something very important.
He might be waiting to see the DNA results, so hasn't told you yet, in case it isn't his.
I would generally say that he lacks moral character.
Decide on breaking up depending on what he has to say for himself.
Confront him about it because it gives him a chance to explain and you to hear the story straight (assuming he is telling the truth). Now when you confront him, it should be a serious and lengthy discussion because if this pregnancy story turns out to be true, then you both need to evaluate your relationship.
So what you would then want to know is what is presently going on with him and his ex, is he in contact with her to support her through her pregnancy, will he be partly taking care of the child after it is born? Will that then effect your current relationship? You need to hear his answer and see if this bothers you and how you feel about him and your relationship.
If you do decide to continue a relationship with him at least this experience is a good lesson to be sure to practice safe sex!
I'm sorry but you should definitely break up with him. You guys have also been dating for two months which isn't long. It's just a sticky situation, especially at your age. Next thing you know, you probably would end up pregnant from him. When his ex has the baby, I'm sure that he would want to be part of his/her life and most of his focus might be in that baby and not you.
Break up with him... people shouldn't keep these types of things hidden from their gfs/bfs. If he had been up front about the situation from the beginning that would've been different but he wasn't so how can you trust him now? Trust and communication are the biggest in a relationship so yup
Honestly, I think the past should stay in the past, don't punish him for something that doesn't directly affect your relationship now. Nothing's wrong with asking him about it, but breaking up? There just isn't a cause.
I think you should break up with him. She need to b responsible to her ex n guys words can't b trusted 100%... Sorry guys
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Break up. You will always be the third person in the relationship. The new mom will be playing in his life for the next 18 years.
How do you feel about getting a job to help take care of his baby with his ex? Some girls get pregnant to hold on to a guy.
Good luck.
you should talk to him.. because no talk over the issues leads to misunderstandings..
no you should stay and let him get your friends prego to
u Yes you should right away. Its a done deal now Its over, he's going to be a new father and he should just marry the other girl
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