I have to agree with you, sweetie, that being she knows you are two birds of a feather who stick together, that she should have made room for You as well in this cozy little Nest she is creating for her birthday party bash. I feel it was a slap in your face, 'Disrespectful' on her part to start and No-----I feel he shouldn't go out of respect for the fact that I was not invited.
I also Feel that this doesn't smell good in Denmark with the birthday girl. I am seeing she has motive in mind by leaving you home and who knows what 'Surprises' she has up her sleeve.
He isn't doing Right by you by leaving you on the sidelines while he goes on a 'Party bus to a nightclub.' If he really had any concern for your feelings, had any real Respect for You who supposedly means something to him, he would tell her that if my Soul mate can't come, I am sorry I can't come either. Perhaps this would have put another sort of light on this sore subject and who knows... she might have changed the guest list, instead of putting you on her pay no mind list.
I am not pointing fingers of her jumping out of the sweet ass cake or even her wearing her 'Birthday suit,' However, it would be nice if you could have been that fly on the bar room wall to see what is going on behind closed doors... I don't quite trust her or the sticky situation... she is playing dirty pool by leaving you home Blue with a sandwich, I call this, while they all paint the town red.
Good luck. xx
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I can understand that you are upset. But given the fact that there is limited space in the party bus there's not much she can do. Would you want her to not invite one of her friends to make space for you, for someone she hasn't met?
Would you be equally upset if this friend happened to be a guy and not a girl? Would you be happy if your boyfriend missed out on a party and probably good night out with friends only because you cannot go?
If your boyfriend excludes you on a regular basis you have every right to be alarmed. But in any relationship it's healthy and good to do things separately once in a while. Try to organise a night out with your friends that night and have fun, don't sit at home and mope around because your boyfriend is having fun without you.
I dont think that it is disrespectful. does he take you with him to most parties. if so then he might just want to party by himself. you should loosen the reins
if the girl knows you/you are friends with her then yes, its very rude of her. However if she merely knows OF you then she has no obligation to invite you to her birthday party. Actually expecting her to do so is rude in itself.
As far as your bf is concerned, i would say it is a bit rude for him to ditch you for the party bus rather than just go out to the nightclub with you and meet her there.
That being said, there is nothing stopping you from going to the nightclub with some of your friends to meet him.
Relationships revolve around compromise. Remember that.
if you two aren't even friends then why would she invite you? that would just end up with you hanging out with your BF the majority of the time because you don't know anyone else (probably) and that's not what she wants or what he probably wants. they wanna all have fun together, she invited him for a reason, to party with him because they're friends.
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You are over reacting. It is her party and is entitled to only invite hers friends. Your boyfriend isn't ditching you. He is just making plans to hang out with his friend on her birthday. He is not required to only go to places if you are going.
he WAS invited
you WEREN'T invited
so stop acting like that.. it's so simpleyes you are overreacting
you probably are not close to that girl so she invited himYou're overreacting, its just a friends party. If it was his guy friend, you probably wouldn't care.
No i dun think its disrespectful ...
She is his frn so that she invite him..DAT gal is a bitch
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