'things have changed!'
What does this mean? 'things have changed'.
I am currently at uni with my girlfriend and having been going out for a year, each holiday break, Christmas/Easter/Summer she takes a funny turn and acts weirdly towards me, she is cold to me on the phone etc... as we both live quite far from each other I can't see her in the holidays and only in the term time. Anyway, we both get on really well when we are together, always have fun, chat about everything and anything and generally enjoy each others company. However, as a result of past relationships (violent ones) my girlfriend says she will refuse to compromise on anything as this led to her getting beaten in the past. I understand where she is coming from, but I feel sometimes she uses it as an excuse to get her own way.
In conjunction with this she is very insecure, despite being beautiful and very popular and constantly needs reassurances that she isn't fat etc...
Anyway during the summer holidays her ex boyfriend moved into her student house with her and her friends (male/female) as his student house was getting decorated. As secure as I am, I didn't like this and asked why she had invited him to stay, she replied that he had asked her and she didn't care if he stayed. What annoyed me was that her ex had a girlfriend that lived just down the road... So anyway I shouted out her telling her she was out of order etc etc... She didn't like this and shouted back obviously.
A week later she came out with, 'things have changed'. To this I go what do you mean? She says she doesn't know just she feels different. To cut a long story short, I asked her outright, do you want to break up with me and she said she didn't know and all she knew was things had changed! (Also she hates talking about anything, she clams up with everyone and anyone about anything personal)
So I'm really wondering whether anyone has got any ideas where she is coming from as I'm rather confused... I think it is her being mega insecure and trying to get her own way, but at the same time I think things might have changed? But how can they change when I haven't seen her over the summer at all...
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