Help! Boyfriend hanging out with a girl I don't like? What to do?

[sfloyd16]

I do not like this girl at all. She's never done anything to me but she really rubs me the wrong way. I think she's just a crappy person. I don't really know her very well but I don't want to get to know her bc I can tell she's shitty.

My boyfriend doesn't seem to understand that you can not like somebody for no reason. He doesn't understand that I just don't want him around her he thinks I need a reason.

It's not them hanging out one on one, his best friend is in love with her. So he always wants her to be around even though he is friend zoned for the rest of his life. So when my boyfriend hangs out with his best friend she's usually around. He thinks it's no big deal and I don't understand why he can't just be like.. no lets not invite her.

But last night him and his best friend went to her house to watch a basketball game and he doesn't understand why I'm so pissed off about it. He keeps saying things like "why is it such a big deal that he wanted to see her and I went with him and just had to be in the same room with her? Why does it bother you?" And he tells me I need to stop acting jealous bc there is nothing to be jealous of.
(I wasn't there bc I'm stuck at my house bc my car is stuck in the now and bc I wouldn't be anyway bc I don't fucking like her)

IM NOT JEALOUS. You don't have to be jealous of someone to not like them AND HE doesn't UNDERSTAND THIS.

it's almost like he's defending her and I don't understand why bc she fucked one of his friends multiple times and then is now stringing along his best friends and I don't understand why that doesn't make him not like her.

And also when I'm around she does not make an effort to talk to me and she doesn't talk to him either. But when I'm not around she does talk to him.

I don't know what to do here

[Cmasterson]

I Understand not liking someone because of your gut instinct even if you don't have a really good reason, I believe we all know a little bit about people we don't know from other people, All though I'd wonder why your boyfriends best friend can't just hang out with her alone, but if your boyfriend is there sometimes then I mean there's nothing you can really do about it- at the end of the day you all are adults and you can't control what other people do, realistically it isn't that big of a deal, we all have things that bother us but sometimes we just have to suck it up, or else it will cause other problems down the line.

[Anonymous]

Trust your boyfriend! He is coming home to you! He picked you to have as his girlfriend. You shouldn't try and control your boyfriend with whom he should and shouldn't hang out with. Guys do not like to be controlled just as much as girls do not like to be controlled.

[Dousj]

If you dont have a reason to not like a person you're kind of in the wrong here

[Anonymous]

be a grown up