so basically this guy that recently started where I work has been interested in me for a few months. I tried to stay away for several reasons not really worth mentioning but recently gave into the way I was feeling. once I accepted how I was feeling I find out that he is engaged. I was upset but such was life. the problem begins at that point because he continued to pursue me but because I was more open with him things started to develop fast. at first I hoped that it was a marriage of convenience as the girl he is going to marry is in another country and I figured he was just trying to bring her into the country. unfortunately I did not confront him about the details until after we got involved. we started sleeping together and that is when the relationship became much more intense. when I finally had enough courage to confront him about it he admitted that he did in fact love her. he would keep telling me that things between him and I would only be temporary so I tried to end it but he insisted that I remain part of his life somehow. I tried to stay away from him but because he kept contacting me I inevitably gave in. he tells me that he loves me and that he considered leaving her to be with me but that he can't do it. I have since ended it again but am afraid I will break and give into him again. it has only been two days but I have not seen him either. Mon we are back at work and I will need to face him everyday again. how do I stay away?
He's engaged but tells me he loves me?
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