I think my boyfriend likes my best friend. What do I do?

[5ch007]

I think my boyfriend likes my best friend. I've already talked to him about this a couple of times. He just says he don't. But when he's with her he smiles more and he talks about his personal life more. He also acts bad around me.

[enis_Penvy]

Think you're jealous of your best friend and ultra sensitive.
But in case you are right about him - dump him. If he treats you bad and wants another girl while dating you then he's a jerk and you don't need him

[5ch007]

The thing is I really like him. We've been dating for a year but I don't know what to do.

[enis_Penvy]

If he likes someone else there's nothing you can do you realize that right?
And if you don't trust him (in other words don't believe him when he says he doesn't like you friend) then you shouldn't be dating him because if you can't trust your boyfriend who can you trust?

[5ch007]

Well thanks i guess

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you think your friend will be loyal to you or does she want your boyfriend?

[5ch007]

I'm not even sure anymore. She has a boyfriend that every single one ignores my friends has dated except me. But I think sometimes she likes him Bc she talks about him all the time. And even asked if she could "flirt" with my boyfriend Bc hers was being a jerk.

[5ch007]

I meant of not ignored. Everybody has dated him.

[OlderAndWiser]

The bottom line is:

1. If this guy would rather be with someone else, why would you want to be with him?

2. If your friend is not loyal to you, then you need to find a new friend.

[5ch007]

Well thanks.

[OlderAndWiser]

That's probably not what you want to hear but, if this guy would rather be with your friend, there's no way this ends well for you, so you might as well get it finished and move on. Sorry!

[5ch007]

It's ok. I understand.

[NajemEddine]

why u can do tell him to stop feeling
even if he likes her he is with u