Why do cheaters always come back?

[helpha]

Almost every time a guy cheats, even if he cheats 100 times, he comes back begging and crying to said girl he cheated on with huge romantic gestures saying 'never again'.. then he does it again, and then he does the SAME thing and apologizes again. Why do guys come back if they choose conciously to cheat? if the girl they are with means enough to cry over and chase after if they make a mistake, why even MAKE that mistake? Are they just addicted to sex with multiple people? Cause I don't think they "don't" care at ALL about the girl they cheat on.

[lightbulb27]

I can only guess... they are confused, drug addicts, looking for a thrill, but want something good... but it isn't enough. So they get their fix of thrill, then go back to what is stable. they're messed up and need to cleanup their brain. send them to counseling, push back.

All people have flaws, some guys who get away with this behavior early on... well... the girls go for them because they are high status, but then, they aren't the committed type. So girls, by way of their nature, exasperate the sitation. So stop feeding the beast and change yourself.

[motorcyclemichael]

there are guys who are very clever at manipulating their own emotions and those of women around them. they are addicted to sex for sure and they use emotional abuse to get it from everyone they can. they tell the women they cheat with they're abused by their spouse when in reality it goes the other way.

[xxmamichulaxx]

Because they aren't used to being alone emotionally , I guess they feel guilty because they know what they've done is wrong. I also think they usually can't handle rejection , a lot of them seem to have a big ego and once they've finally been the one to get hurt emotionally , they can't understand it or handle it. Its funny how they usually always come crying back and once they've got accepted back , they go back to their old ways