I'm not talking to my boyfriend. Will he understand why?

[Anonymous]

OK so my boyfriends brother hates me! (for no real reason...) And he says a lot of rude comments towards me but everyone thinks its just a joke or not to take it so serious cause that's just how he is... now my boyfriend takes up for me from time to time and yells at his brother but his brother doesn't care. The same thing just keeps happening and I'm fed up! He literally said "I don't care about ur WACK girlfriend!" I cried to myself cause I wanted things to work out but my boyfriend doesn't do enough to control his brother. my feelings are very hurt and I refuse to be anywhere near his brother and I'm not talking to my boyfriend until something is done! will he eventually understand?

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we have been dating for almost a year...

[Mero-chan]

I think you should tell your boyfriend. You can't read his mind so what makes you think he can read yours? Talk to him and stop hiding what you feel, it only causes problems. Nothing is going to happen if you just sit and wait for it to happen, you need to take action and do something yourself. Talk to his brother and try to work things out. Even if he doesn't want to talk to you, keep on trying. You really need to work this out because his brother is always going to be his brother, you aren't always going to be his girlfriend. If you care and want to say in this relationship you will try hard despite your emotions and really work this out.

[chiefnavarro]

how long have you been dating, maybe he know about you and doesn't approve. your his girlfriend not his wife. that's his brother hell always be their you wont.

[Asker]

Yea he is his brother and he will always be there and that's y I don't understand y he thinks he'll lose his brother with me in the picture. Before my boyfriend and I started dating we were friends, and then I later met his brother and we became real cool and hit it off well but once we started dating he became a whole different person towards me. his mom even said to me not to get to upset he's just jealous that my boyfriend wants to spend time with me then with him... I can't really help that!

[socalbabe]

he will eventually understand. same thing happened to me. just talk to his brother and see wasssup.