He cheated on me for the past two years out our 4yrs and fallen in love with her. We both believe we were his only one and we found out about each other the same week. He begs me not to leave him and beg her the same thing. I love him dearly, and he tells me she will not accept if I get pregnant for him. So he is pressuring me to make a child with him asap. I never met his family, because am black and his family is racist, but his family love and adore her because she is white like them. He says if I get pregnant his family will have to accept me. but he still does not want to leave her! she is pressuring him for three of us to meet so he can tell me in front of her that he does not want me anymore; but he refuse to do this because he says he loves me a lot and will never put me through such pain, and also he would be lying to himself if he says he does not want me anymore; so he think she will leave and then I cud finally be introduce to his family. I ask him what if she does not want to leave, but his reply was that he is really embarrassed that he deceive us both and he is hurt and confuse about everything, he said she is innocent because he did not told her about me in the beginning. He can't tell me he will leave her but he is so sure about wanting a baby with me because he says he needs me to 4ever be in his life. and he says knows he is a horrible man because treats me like she was there before me,its not a nice feeling. he does not live with either of us however she is his next door neighbor and I live 10mins drive away. I try to leave him last night but he convince me to stay and wait it out until he figure this whole thing out. Yet last night he come inside me and tell me he loves me. am hurt and confuse. what do you think about this whole thing? what should I do?
He loves both of us and does not want to choose!
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