What does it mean when a guy doesn't contact you for days?
What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn't talk to you for days?
What does it mean when a guy doesn't contact you for days?
I think we are living parrallel lives. This is happening to me except I am living with my boyfriend. It is harder and easier this way because for one, you know where they lay their head each night, so it's easier... but harder because you can't really step back and see it from another perspective. But by the looks of it it seems like you are going to have to do some serious reevaluating of the relationship. I agree that he does need some time to pull back from you, but honestly if you guys are taking long stretches of not talking to each other, it's going to be harder and harder to come back together as close as you were before. Be the bigger person and have a heart to heart with him in person, and see how that goes. A girl told me the other day that she's calling it like she sees it "It's Over". Those were harsh words, and I sort of believed her in a way, but I really did not. I am really uncertain what I need to do myself because I feel like things have got to change a lot before I can really see myself down the line with this guy because things are really not working out for me. He hardly talks to me, shows affection or lets me know he loves me. He refuses to hang out with my friends or see a therapist... or really talk about how he feels. Things HAVE to change soon for this to go on much longer, and you too should really think about what you need to change for you to continue also.
He needs time to think things through, he's busy or he doesn't deal with problems but avoids them
I think he is avoiding them...
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Maybe he's just busy. I don't know.
The last time he did this, he wasn`t sure if he still wanted to be wtih me or not.
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