Girls and guys : Have you ever fall in love with a foreigner?

[cajun]

Ever fall in love with someone who is foreign guy or girl..

what made you to like them and how did it end up..

[mintscent]

Yeah, I have... It happened exactly one year ago, when I was 16 old and he was almost 16 (I am older than him). He was (and still is, lol) Malay (so he's Asian ... and I'm European) and I met him online through a mmorpg I was playing at the time. You'd say it was childish, and I agree. I instantly felt a connection the first time I talked to him, though. The very few words, actually. I mean it. I don't know what it was, but he was so different from the other guys. Okay, I didn't have that many male friends, and I still don't, but there was something about him, really.
We talked for, like, three weeks or so, during which he managed to make my crazy, overly talkative and jokester side, while still keeping my caring side in the spotlight. And no one has ever managed to do it the way he did.
Fast forward, he suddenly left the game without saying anything and I experienced the most powerful heartbreak I ever felt until then. I kept missing him badly for months (from may to July or August ).
One day I logged into the game and I saw he was online. He was the one who approached and I asked him what happened. He said he had been in the hospital because he hurt something during a football match (he is very sporty). Then we never talked because we had school to go to and no free time for online games.
My crush on him is, thankfully, over. I think I'll always cherish him, though. I had (and still have, but now it's better) low self esteem and e indirectly gave me a few life lessons and made me feel great about myself.

[cajun]

well written, so u never met or have seen his pic.."P

[mintscent]

Thanks!
Oh, I did see a few pictures of him. One was his avatar on Skype and the other ones are from his Instagram I accidentally discovered one month ago. What can I say, a football player's body is a football player's body... I mean--he really is good looking from my POV. :)

[cajun]

yeah..its over or u still keep in touch...

[mintscent]

It's pretty much over. He hardly uses Skype and hardly plays that online game now. Maybe he'll log in a bit during vacation; I don't know when that is, though. As for the Instagram, he doesn't use it much either and he doesn't know that I know about it, hehe.

[cajun]

Don't worry. You'll do great.

[mintscent]

Thank you :) Have a good day~

[DragonWolf]

Yeah, the first guys I fell in love with were two guys from America, they were brothers, one of them saved my life. I met them a month later and they taught me how to walk again, and the guy that saved my life even went down on his knees for me once to sing a sing for me (Be the one - The Fray) so beautiful :D How it ended -> they both got murdered, the guy that saved my life in December 2008, his brother x-mas 2012. What made me like them, probably their awesome personalities and their eyes, the guy that saved my life had beautiful light blue eyes while his brother had amazing yellow eyes.

At the moment I'm online dating a guy from Australia, never met him in real life though. We Skype sometimes, but we usually talk on Facebook :) Guess I fell in love with his personality (even though he's also good looking ;) )

[cajun]

its touching.. those blue eyes..ohh..

[DragonWolf]

Yeah haha, his eyes were so perfect <3

[cajun]

u remind of that song " pale blue eyes velvet underground " ..
i am going to hear it soon.. :O

[DragonWolf]

dont know that song, I'll listen to it now :)

[cajun]

i am going to dedicating that song for you and those beautiful eyes..

[DragonWolf]

haha, nice song :D

[cajun]

this is one mine favorite song too.. i falled for someone just seeing her eyes.. its round eyes,, best eyes i have ever encounter on the planet..

[DragonWolf]

Haha, yeah well, when I saw the guy after he saved my life I also was like, OMG HIS EYES!!!<3 haha. So yeah, that and the fact that he saved my life already kinda made me fall for him.

[cajun]

nice.. they all watching from you above..

[DragonWolf]

Yeah, one day Crash - You me at six randomly started playing on my phone, while I don't even have that song on my phone haha. With the lyrics:
Where you say you're goin'?
Who you goin' with?

Keep me on my toes,
Keep me in the know.

Wait, keep me in your skin,
Keep me in your chest.
I'll wait for it to start,
I'll wait for it to end.

Keep me on my toes,
Keep me in the know.

But when I looked at her,
I thought of only you.
If only there was proof I could use to show it's true.

Made me feel so special haha :D

[cajun]

thank u.. i am kind going to forward it soon..

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

They seem to be the only guys I like at this point in my life. So much so American men are starting to get on my nerves. I guess because I like to travel and learn experience new things, people, places and cultures. Im a world citizen. On top of that I think I enjoy the distance these relationships give me. First guy was from Canada , the next was a middle eastern guy visa student, after him was a Russian guy, now consistently an Australian. I love adulthood somedays and college just amplifies it with all the study abroad and student exchange it offers.

[cajun]

Share something about middle eastern guy.. how did it happend.. sorta, intrested?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

What lol? He was an abroad student at my school. He was a fairly handsome guy and he just caught me after class one day he told me I was a very beautiful woman. Then I started helping him with his English and he taught me some Arabic.

[cajun]

hehe..Hows your arabic.. ?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Probably not that good now since I haven't had anyone to really practice with.

[cajun]

b-(b-(, u can teach non-arabic guys. guys might have take that challenge.. dahh..

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Depends, what do you have to teach?

[cajun]

Infact, its an ice breaker when you wish anyone in their mothertongue.. i had felt an instant connection when somebody says anything.. hmm

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Oh well I guess I would say or think the same thing if my primary language wasn't English . However I can still appreciate the beauty of another language or accent.

[cajun]

yes, thats point of love..Making love is an emotional experience which makes you feel a high about your love and yourself

[ObscuredBeyond]

Two catfish from the Philippines. Sure enough, I later found out they were cousins. At least the first one's sister admitted to being a manipulator. Gotta watch out for those types. They especially like to mess with young 30-something American singles, whom they suspect have money and whom they know will do almost anything in the hopes of obtaining a wife.

[cajun]

yeah.. infact philippines are very easy to talk to.. they are very open and had free of concerns and things like that..

[Jbgurl20]

Aww.. not all filipinas are like that. Those two girls give us a bad name :(

[ObscuredBeyond]

Thanks, Jbgurl20. Yeah...the gals in the Cagayan de Oro College area in the architecture program like to mess around. I'm half-convinced the program is such a strain on their time and sanity, that messing with men's emotions gives them some kind of outlet for their pent-up stress. Not a healthy coping strategy, but a common one.

The Canadian Hmongs I ran into at Ferris State, if they weren't studying for pre-pharm, were looking for one night stands. I never got one, but I could hear their antics at 3 AM through the walls. Crazy times.

[Jordahn]

I'm in America and dating someone who isn't the same nationality is common. Why only date girls who are the same nationality as you, when there are so many beautiful women out there? Finding someone with your same values is more important than nationality.

[cajun]

Good point, bro..
let all narrow minded crackpots takes a cue from it.. for a change i mean it..

[bubbiexo]

When I was in high school there was this exchange student from Germany. He was GORGEOUS and all of the girls loved him. Somehow we ended up hanging out a lot, and while I wouldn't say I was in love, I would say that I was very very fond of him. He was so sweet, smart, funny, and fun.
He went back to Germany but spent his last night here with me-- we never had sex.

[cajun]

good.. he is indeed missing you..

good luck,,

[wildwolfxoxo]

I have not, i'm married to an American man.
But i just thought i would comment to let you know that in English we would say, "Have you ever FALLEN in love with a foreigner?"
Fallen is past tense, so you wanna use that since it happened in the past.
Just thought i'd give a little heads up :)

[cajun]

thank u for ur feedback..

but i kind of feel: in the age of text messages grammar belongs to the dinosaurs.") (")") (")

[COCOCHANEL]

fall, fell, fallen.
fallen is the past participle which is why it's used with have.

[cajun]

okay, ok, k , okies... :P

Now i will forward this piece of wisdom to my English teacher..ho-hum... (*)

[waitforit45]

Yes. I am Australian and I fell in love with an English guy from London when I lived there. I had to move back to Australia for university and we decided to give long-distance a go. It's been a year and a half and we're still together, with a few visits to each other in between :) He's moving here in October on a one year working holiday visa to be with me :) If you love someone enough you can overcome any obstacle.

[cajun]

Long distance will work if you seems much invsted on it..

good luck..

[Conviction]

Yes. In terms of culture, ethnicity and religion we were on common grounds. But, she was brought up in a foreign country. I fell in love with her. But she turned out to be a BUSY, SELF-CENTRED, SOPHISTICATED BITCH FULL OF PRIDE...

*Takes deep breath*

[cajun]

belive me, Perfect women and perfect love is headed towards you and its going to happen soon..

good luck, bro

[Conviction]

Nah, bro... I gave up... I might go for girls just to flirt with them.. But i ain't going to fall in love with a girl again..

[cajun]

thats a hard decion , and, my god , beauty is always powerful than any ideals.. i wish you win..

[Anonymous]

Ohhh yeah BIG TIME!!! Haha this kid from Ireland. I liked how we can talk about everything and anything. Plus he's super cute and smart. He is like my twin it's so weird except he's kinda a dork; p we both admitted how we felt but the long distance thing is a bummer but it hasn't stopped me. I won't be able to talk to him until July or see him until August probably I don't know. Til then I'm just waiting :(

[cajun]

cute... Where did u met him?

[Opinion Owner]

At first it was cute! Now it's pathetic, lol. He studies to much so now we won't speak until July which is bs but I'm hooked big time. Plus I'm visiting EUR in Aug. Hope I can see him. We met in a chat room I was bored at work and wasted time there. We then kiked each other blah blah. I think I like him because before I even saw his face I thought he was nice and a little funny nerd...after I saw his face...I started thinking about where to go for our honeymoon. ..SCORE!!

[cajun]

Did u say , u liked him..

[Opinion Owner]

I told him I was attracted to him! He made me spill it out, he knew I was trying to hold it in but I couldn't anymore he got shy and said he was attracted to me too. I told him twice afterwards Iwas interested in him. And I really am. I have the story in my questions. Like I lost sleep over this guy lol

[cajun]

heyyy.. so u made the first move and he kind of accepted it..

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah totally which it shocked me lol. But I won't know if he will stay true to his word and speak to me in July, I feel he will you know. He's not a liar or asshole at all. Usually he kepts his promises but I don't know.

[cajun]

why not, u seems to be someone who is full of energy and poise.. he surely looking forward to it..

[Opinion Owner]

I really hope so because I want to smuggle him back into America lmao I'll drug him up if not;) but July is a long time and one hi here and there won't hurt. I'm just looking like an idiot waiting

[cajun]

July seems like an eternity..ahh..

[Opinion Owner]

Basicallyyyyyyy. =.. ( so I'll ask you your own question. .. have you ever?

[cajun]

I never moved out of my city..hmm.. :P

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok

[cajun]

poor me..

[Opinion Owner]

You'll be fine, one day you'll travel. :)

[cajun]

I may miss my mom..i cannot think of anyother dishes beside her..

[Opinion Owner]

Ha awww. Just visit for a time don't move away

[cajun]

I had tried and i cannot pass beyod airport, soon i may miss mom and come back..momaaaaaaaaaa.. :)

[cajun]

you know there is connection between food and lover.. prepare anything for your guy, if he liked it, believe me he is going to stay with you for eternity..

[Anonymous]

I'm in love with an Aussie guy. I am a Filipina. It's crazy how we met. I can say he's the best guy I've ever met. He is cute and very smart, I love talking to him and for him I'm the most beautiful girl in the world. I love how he makes me feel so beautiful.

[cajun]

being in love is an amazing feeling.. i can feel in your words..

good luck..

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you very much

[musicbrain5]

Yeah, I am in love with a Serbian guy. He is really awesome, cares about me in a way that nobody else does, and he just knows me so well. Plus he has a nice accent :). We're getting married later this year.

[cajun]

congrats for marriage..how long do u know eacother

[musicbrain5]

We've known each other for a few years, but only became a couple just over 2 years ago when he moved here to go to school.

[cajun]

How u do meet him.. ?

[musicbrain5]

We were teenagers and he was visiting my city. I met him when he stopped to ask me how to get somewhere.

[cajun]

he is first love?

[musicbrain5]

First real love.

[cajun]

great,, great..

[abundantlyrich]

No i have nothing in common with them at all. Different culture, different land, different looks and different life style

[cajun]

hmmm, a different opinion for this question too,, :-E:-E:

[abundantlyrich]

not to mention different language/communication barrier

[cajun]

but life is what is happening to ur comfort zone

[abundantlyrich]

yeah the differences is too great for me and familiarities/similarities are the common glue of the relationships

[cajun]

but life is what is happening to outside ur comfort zone

[abundantlyrich]

I dont tolerate weaknesses well.

[cajun]

hmm, but u should not close urself when something like that of happening with you.. ?

[MaskofInsanity]

I've been the foreigner that someone fell in love with, if that counnts. Twice.

[cajun]

Online?

[MaskofInsanity]

No, in person

[cajun]

in class or somewhere outside..

[MaskofInsanity]

Outside of class. Once was through my sister when I was younger. The other time was when I went on student exchange.

[cajun]

Where are they from.. ?

[MaskofInsanity]

First was in Sri Lanka, the second the US

[cajun]

where u from... ?/>

[MaskofInsanity]

Australia :)

[dodgypirate]

I've fallen for a French/Jewish girl... she's incredible, but very humble.

[cajun]

and what did u mumble to her to make her fumble you

[dodgypirate]

It's just been this really intense "more-than-friends" relationship for the last 4 years and counting.

We've slept together and all, and we're really intimate at times.

It just can't happen for the moment because of the distance.

[cajun]

When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though, sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him..

Khalil Gibran- The prophet

[dodgypirate]

I'm not religious...

[cajun]

ohh, Never mistake it.. its beautiful verse about love.. u should read and belive me u can impress many of them..

also poet, kahalil gibran is from jesus place and to your surprise he is also an ATHIEST..

[dodgypirate]

I'm not atheist either...

[cajun]

So your one of mind kind.. hmm.. :)

[Lia20]

When i went to france two years ago on an exchange program I went out with a french guy, i wasn't in love but it was a good experience.
He was the one who was always looking for me and asking me out, and it just happened, he was really romantic, a gentelman, and i must say that the fact that he obiously speaks french gave him extra points, we broke up bcause i was going back to my country.
:)

[cajun]

I think no one left france without falling in love.. ho-hum.. :O

[kangaru2]

Yes - japanese (in love) and American (liked)
The first experience ended amicably but during the process it was heart pain
The second experience started off amicably but it ended up heart pain too

[cajun]

japan and america are polar opposite. so..what r u doing.. artist..

[kangaru2]

what do u mean?

[cajun]

i mean, falling for two diametrically opposite people requires a mind and heart of a mystic and i feel you are spiriritual person to the core.. hmmm.. :J

[kangaru2]

LOL!!! spirtual person? no i am not. my preference changed over the year, but it is their personality that attracted me

[cajun]

something might be common in them..do u find it..what it isss

[kangaru2]

hmmm they are actually very different. maybe one thing in common is they were sweet on me.

[cajun]

maybe they have common smile, which u find appealing,,

[kangaru2]

noooooo but i find the first experience more geninue

[cajun]

painful..dagg,,:P

[kangaru2]

part and parcel of life, i have learnt lessons :)

[cajun]

thats the spirit.. the point is not repeating the same mistakes again..

[blondfrog]

I have never fell in love with anyone cause I have never been in a relationship, but I had lots of crushes on foreigners.

[cajun]

its high time you sign out and meet some girls..

[blondfrog]

Hey if you wanna be by my wingman then be my guest.

[wanyuya]

Oh, Jesus Christ

[questioner1991]

I once had a crush with a foreign exchange student from Germany but I was not in love with him. I liked his clothes...

[Ams_boi]

Only once, a very beautiful Iranian girl, she broke my heart by leaving me to go to another country

[cajun]

Pftt, share something about her, bro.. <

[Ams_boi]

Brings back memories, painful ones, she had very excotic looks, and a heart of gold, but sadly she was depressed and irritable all the time, I wish she would have let me helped her.

[cajun]

So u both fell in love or you had crush and could'nt make work it out.. ?

[Ams_boi]

I fell in love, it werent just a crush

[cajun]

oho.. when did u say u liked her and what did she said to it..

[Ams_boi]

The problem was this was at Uni time, she was in her final year when I met, she hated the UK, and was going anyway, I fell for a girl that was destined to leave, we did that close and kissed and stuff but she said she couldnt commit. It made me sad

[cajun]

I had similar story , i had fallen for someone who is about to leave the place and never confessed it but she came back after four years.. No she looked at me she knows me and next day i went to her place and told I AM FALLING FOR YOU AGAIN..

good luck.

[Balcazaurus]

It was sixth grade.

She had just moved to CA from Russia.

I think it was my first real crush.

[cajun]

From russia with CRUSH..:O

[Anonymous]

I met a guy online. He's from england I'm from America. But he's kinda going nowhere.. But I hope we are friends for life.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, met him through a forum. We Skype and have was others phone numbers and everything

[cajun]

so Its just kind of you like eachother and relation is flourishing..hmm

[legalboxers]

yeah. didn't go as I planned. she (was from Denmark) didn't want to come to America. she ended up with someone is England

[lumos]

I have. He's awesome.

[cajun]

i know he also feels you awsome too,,

[somegirl54]

My boyfriend is British (I'm german) and we've been for 2 1/2 years :) His accent tho ♥

[cajun]

Can he sing.. ?

[somegirl54]

He can. But it sounds horrible haha :D

[cajun]

hehe... *&*(
how do he pronounce your german name.. :P

[somegirl54]

English . But it's alright :)