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Why do men only see me as a fun friend and never as girlfriend material?

Im constantly in my own head wondering whats wrong with and why guys dont like me or want to be with. Im well travelled, funny and just a genuinely happy person who loves to have fun. I dont have trouble with getting...
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Why is it so difficult for me as an autistic women to get a date/boyfriend?

I don’t understand. I’m kind, loyal, honest and trustworthy but I know my autistic traits can turn people off but I do my best to control it. I was told any man that ends up with me will have a good woman. People say I...
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Bra's, push up and or padded, are they an unfair tease, visually?

In terms of mate selection. - 👀 So many guys must be fooled and left disappointed ☹️ if it turns out their woman they've been dating for weeks, months, has - smaller cup breasts. And not the DD's or E's or even C's...
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In terms of mate selection. - 👀 So many guys must be fooled and left disappointed ☹️ if it turns out their woman they've been dating for weeks, months, has - smaller cup breasts. And Show More
They're an unwelcomed tease
They're still a visual eye candy treat on women for men
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Why did he say he need time to think in our situation?

We met online dating app & live in diff states. We click. He was consistent and went hard on attention the 1st week. We talked everyday. We told each other we love each other. he told me on his own he stopped taking to...
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Is this loveboming?

My friend recently started dating this guy and we are all very happy for her however there are some concerns I have. Some background: she is anxious attachment, falls pretty easily. They met on a dating app and jsut...
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I think I might have posted this before, but what do you think of the people who said the girl who doesn't need the guy is the girl who gets the guy?

I know lot women who married very popular guys but none of those girls viewed their guy as prime dating material, their competition did, but not the girls that married them. Most dating coaches say, if you chase a guy you...
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Why don't women around my age seem to like me?

I've seen this question hashed out before but wanted my personal touch to it. Ok I'm almost 32. Divorced and haven't dated since 2017. Now I'm back in the dating scene and I've had a couple of dates here and there. Now...
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Are a large % of non-white women in relationships with white men due to white worship?

A discussion recently occurred on r/Asianmasculinity, where an Asian male was talking about the complete double standards that Asian women have for Asian men and white men. A snippet from OP discussion called "Different...
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A discussion recently occurred on r/Asianmasculinity, where an Asian male was talking about the complete double standards that Asian women have for Asian men and white men. A snippet Show More
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What's your flirting style? What's the strangest flirtation you've ever received? What's your biggest flirting blooper?

Hi Guys and Gals! I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday. Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically flirting with most people we grow close...
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Hi Guys and Gals! I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday. Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically Show More
Physical Flirt: Consensually, respectfully use body language + touch to convey interest. (Eye contact, touching someone's arm/hand, standing close, playful teasing to express attraction.)
Sincere Flirt: Expressing genuine interest by getting to know someone better. (Asking qts, listening attentively, showing empathy to build a deeper connection and move to a meaningful relationship.)
Playful/Witty Flirt: Fun, lighthearted clever humor, teasing and bantering. (Jokes, puns, sarcasm, wordplay, witty banter to express attraction and create a relaxed, enjoyable atmosphere, break the ice, or impress and entertain each other.)
Traditional Flirt: Uses stereotypical gender roles and social norms. (A man taking the lead to initiate + pursue a woman (who is coy and demure), which can be charming and romantic but limiting as well.)
Polite Flirt: Courteous and respectful treatment. (Compliments, expressed interest in hobbies/interests, or simply polite and attentive courtesy to show interest without being too forward.)
Subtle Flirt: Understated and indirect use of subtle cues (prolonged eye contact, smiling, or mirroring the other’s body language and mannerisms to express interest without being too overt or pushy).
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Do men even want good women?

In the dating world I see so many good wife material women who are passed up for some easy low hanging fruit type of women! They want the women who doesn't care nor even like them! A women who has 0 intention of wanting...
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How are people still getting together? (long)?

I was stuck in an elevator with 2 couples for half an hour today. 1 couple was pregnant. The husband was gorgeous, tall, my dream man. The wife was plain woman in her 30s. The other couple were happily married and had...
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Do you think your political ideology—such as communism—shapes your views on relationships and intimacy? If so, in what ways?

Marxist theory critiques the influence of economic structures on all aspects of life, including personal relationships. From a Marxist perspective, relationships could be understood through the lens of class struggle,...
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Have you guys ever felt like you are behind in life?

Have you felt like you’re way behind on life? I feel like my peers are getting married and having children while I’m here in my mid 30s, single, unlucky with dating and I’m just not the woman to have a relationship. My...
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What's your turn off/ red flag?

This is for guys 40+. What's your biggest turn off/ red flags while dating younger women? And what do you consider wife material?
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Why would a guy in a relationship be on dating apps just to look?

If your boyfriend was on multiple hookup sites and said it just for window shopping, getting off material and for just knowing the possibility he could have that what would you think? Do? Would you believe him? Guys is...
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Is America’s “Marriage Material” shortage real?

I recently read an article regarding the decline in traditional dating, and a decline in marriage. Do you think this is actually happening? Why or why not?...
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Men of late 20s/30s, in hindsight, dating women who are 20 or 22, they're very not long term material, huh?

A good example: the types of early 20s women who spend a fair amount of time posting their holidays, vacations, makeup, and other stuff on the socials. They're clearly not "women who seem like the type to stick around"...
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Girls, would you consider dating a dumb guy?

He makes good money, is kind, charming, funny, and really good in bed but he's embarrassingly dumb! Is he dating material or is it a "No Go"!
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Guys, Why does my guy friend keep asking me out?

I clearly told him or hinted him that I don’t like him and only see him as a friend. Every dance we had he ALWAYS asked me to go with him and I said no. Don’t get me wrong, he’s sweet, funny, caring, honest and crazy...
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Given the current USA climate, would publicly funded libraries even exist? Have modern libraries exceeded their mandate?

First off, ITS lib-R-ary with an "R" NOT "LIBERRY"! STATEMENT: Project 2025 and Libraries EveryLibrary opposes the Project 2025 framework by the Heritage Foundation because it would dismantle important parts of how public...
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First off, ITS lib-R-ary with an "R" NOT "LIBERRY"! STATEMENT: Project 2025 and Libraries EveryLibrary opposes the Project 2025 framework by the Heritage Foundation because it would Show More
Public libraries are ESSENTIAL & would likely be opposed today.
Public libraries are ESSENTIAL and would receive broad support today.
Good! Libraries are expensive & have exceeded their mandate - it's JUST BOOKS!
Good! Less woke BS! Feds shouldn't be involved anyway!
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