She blocked me on facebook?
well I didn't want to put the question as, why did she block me on facebook? Because the answer seems pretty obvious... but maybe you guys can give me some hope still... the girl in question is pretty much my dream girl... before sending her a message on facebook out of no where ! (ahh I'm so stupid) everything was really good. she lives near me and we always look at each other and smile and wave and say hi and I have caught her looking at me a few times... like really friendly smiles and I can just tell she likes me ( or so I thought )... I think she is a little shy... I am too... so after this has been going on for a long time , I decided to find her on facebook Because in person she is always with her family / or y family is around... I could barely ever catch her by herself, and she goes to school out of state so... I missed seeing her... I sent her a message asking if I knew her from somewhere? =) ... she responded she didn't know because she couldn't see my pic... my pic was our street sign.., then I asked her exactly how many people with my name she knew on our street? then she laughed and said she never called me by my full name before! and asked me how it was going... at this point I got carried away I guess Because I was relieved she responded ... I probably wrote too much back but I was trying to start conversation... I told her it was nice out here and I asked her how she was doing and how everything was going and ... then I asked her not to tell anyone I looked her up Because I still like to go out side ... ( which meant I was just shy and didn't want anyone to know ) but I didn't say it like that to her so I don't know what she thinks... about 3 weeks went by and she never responded so I sent another message telling her I wanted to apoligize for writing her like that and looking her up without asking her... she responded a couple days later and said no worries, I hope your doing well ! , then I responded thanking her and telling her she was was so cool! lol ... and I asked her if she wanted me to / could I keep writing her ? or should I just stay on my side of the street ? I thought it was clever lol but again she didn't respond ... a month went by and so I wrote her again, apologizing for sending her messages she doesn't respond to and that I understand ... and I wished her well and told her I would see her around... then she responded a few days later , she said hey, seriously stop apologizing. its totally fine, I'm just really busy and rarely come on facebook . see you around! ... that message is fine, I'm totally fine with that... I wasn't going to send her anymore messages... but I noticed now am blocked! =( awwwwww I'm so sadd... did she really block me? and why? what are some possible reasons other than she doesn't like me? or do you think she just doesn't like me? I really really really thought this girl liked me! I think I scared her away she probably thinks I'm a stalker! oh god this sucks ! what can I do you guys? please help! sorry this was so long!
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Dude, you are seriously OVER EMOTIONAL about 1 girl. She's your dream girl? Yeah, right. Well your dream girl just shot you down because you freaked her out.
What you need to realize is that you're LUSTING over this chick because she's so beautiful and such. You don't know her personally. So how could this be your dream girl?
Get a grip and go find another girl. But don't go crazy over their apparent beauty, because you can find those girls anywhere you go. First rule is to build a friendship with said girl, and get to know them more. Build attraction and then you can progress into a relationship, as long as the girl is right for you.
What Girls Said 3
Too much, too soon.
You did creep her out & she was afraid of you. That is no way to be. Next time, take it easy. I don't think she will ever give you another chance, so don't give that a thought. I fear that boat has sailed.
I'm sorry but I don't think you can do anything about this...she's pretty much blocked your only mode of contact with her, sounds like you creeped her out. :(
My only suggestion is that next time you try to get know someone you're interested in then maybe you should try to talk to them in real life. It's hard to gauge how someone feels about you online.
What Guys Said 5
Dude,you blew it.YOu were too needy and weak.Woman and girls like a guy who doesn't give FLYING FUCK! Learn it, live it, love it! You need to show them that you have otehr interests and girls. When they learn this, you become more mysterious to them, That's when the juices flow. You have to come across confident and not give a shit.That's when they like it. DO not text her again.She has to respond or move on. You don't want to come across with no confidence in your self because she will perceive this, It's a brutal game of psychology but the guys who get the woman,ar ethe ones confident and don't have a care in the world if she rejects them.The guys who make girls laugh are called gay men/friends,the guy who gets woman in bed, know that you need to build their tension and making a girl laugh all night releases that tension! So don't be the comedian, be the sexy guy who doesn't give a SHIT about if she rejects him or not, there are otehr chicks I'll pick up tonight, I'm not throwing all my eggs in one basket babe.I once screwed up with a long distance family friendship I tried to turn into a relationship(my wife's cousin, OUCH!) I mentioned having children with her and she freaked out and blocked me on FB probably because I creeped her out and I only said this to her because I perceived that it was over anyway cause she was torturing me never responding texts and when she did from time to time, they were so criptic answers like one or two sentence anwers., I said to myself. FUCK YOU, I'm more important then that and you were teasing me for 18 months and now you want to tease me again through this horshit FB and texting. I'll just wait until I get to hungary in April and go over her fucking house and knock on the fucking door and straighten her ass out once and for all by telling her, "I don't need you but you should be flattered of having me babe" That's the attitude dude!
You're stressing too much man. My true advice to you, even more so than last time's is to just give it a week. Calm your emotions down and rethink things. Not getting this girl isn't the end of it all. If she truly is your so called "dream" girl you have to dig a little deeper than just a few hellos and eye glances. I myself am in one of these stupid emotional f***s right now, but I've learned that if you give it a few days and such, you'll see clearer. Just focus on other things for now then come back around to it a few days later.
Yeah, no... it's pretty clear that you freaked her out.
Or try to talk to her in real life sometime in the future (and try to act more normal).
Sorry to say this buddy but maybe she is not interested. Also have you guys ever talked irl? "pretty much my dream girl.." why exactly, do you know her well?