I've gone out or hung out with this girl twice and talk to her a few times a week. I've asked her out a couple other times and she would say she was busy doing something and the one time she agreed she called to say she was sick. After that I asked once more and she came up with another excuse. I confronted her and she said I really like you but I am struggling to get over my ex and a few other things(substance abuse and depression). Then she rescheduled the date and blew me off. I stopped talking to her after that and she started texting once a week asking how I was doing and eventually said "look I know you are mad but I'm trying to make things less awkward between us. I can't handle being with anyone right now and am going through a hell of a time." She then said she wasn't saying that we couldn't try in the future but she couldn't right now. Then asked for friends for now.
Later that week I helped a mutual friend she lives with move (had agreed to it prior) and she had that giggly laugh when I'd say a stupid jokes and later she initiated flirting via text before going to bed.
So does it sound like she's being genuine or is she playing me?
Later that week I helped a mutual friend she lives with move (had agreed to it prior) and she had that giggly laugh when I'd say a stupid jokes and later she initiated flirting via text before going to bed.
So does it sound like she's being genuine or is she playing me?
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