All Questions

Why do so many girls prefer white guys?

I notice so many black girls (online aka on here) prefer white men, despite most white men not liking black girls. And then they come on here and ask if white men like black girls. Guys who respond honestly get...

pickledxtofu

Xper 5 Age: 32

Have you ever met a girl like described?

It's a common joke that girls wear revealing clothes then get mad when they are hit on. How many of you have first hand seen such a scenario? What was it like?

Theguyoverthere

Guru Age: 41

Is it racist to have a mandala wall hanging? (if you're white)

I think mandalas are beautiful and have an understanding of what they mean but I don't feel like I really get the cultural significance. I know its often considered racist for white girls to wear bindis ect. and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy give you an expressionless stare?

Even after you smiled at him? I walked into a restaurant when I saw a guy at the counter waiting for his food. When he saw me he was staring at me, I decided to smile becasue it felt awkward. He didn't react to this he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are some signs that a guy wants to kiss you?

So this guy told me he liked me and wanted to go out in September. I told him that I was flattered, but wasn't ready for a relationship. We're friends and we've been having out almost everyday since. I've since developed...

kaylaS91

Editor Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend used me for sex. I'm heart broken.

So , I don't really have a question I'm just so devastated .. My ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago , about 5 days before my bday , saying he wasent sure about his feelings , we had been together 2 years, and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean if a guy glances at your lips a lot while talking to you?

Let's say, a guy and a girl are talking, and while he's looking at her while she talks, he glances at her lips every few seconds, but then looks back up at her eyes. Some people say it means that the person is...

melissa2

Xper 6 Age: 29

Relationships

Are women capable of being loyal?

There was this great question on here from today about a girl sleeping and loving two men (sometimes having sex with them on the same day), with no hint of irony or guilt in her description my question is... are woman...

dx021

Explorer Age: 38

Girls, I want to grab my girlfriend's hips during a kiss will she like it?

If the answer is YES the plese explain how I should do it? If the answer is No then please explain why?

Tyler17

Xper 3 Age: 31

My ex always brags about how her rebound is so perfect.

On her social networking sites she brags about how much this guy is perfect and she likes him. We just broke up about a month ago and we dated three years I was her first and so I was wondering is it possible for a girl...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy apologizes when he teases me?

So I've liked this guy for 3 years now.Sometimes this guy sits next to me in class and teases me. all the time but when I get upset he asks me if I'm mad at him and I say yes so he apologies and after apologising he says...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why would a guy look down when he sees you?

Why would a guy look down when he sees you? Theres this guy I like and we were talking. I said to him I think I seen you before and he said no I wasn't out so I said oh you have a look alike and he said better he didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you care if a girl's a bad kisser?

I have only kissed three guys and I'm not frigid or anything just when it comes to kissing a guy I freak that I will be a bad kisser. So what I want to know is...do guys care if a girl is a bad kisser?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Asking out a girl from work. Good idea or Bad?

There is this girl from my work that I've worked with for a few years, we have always been flirty with each other. I think she like's me I just think she's afraid to get involved with someone from work. Maybe she's...

thesinisterurge

Xper 5 Age: 38

What does it mean when a guy says "nice shoes"?

I know it has nothing to do with the article of clothing because he wasn't there physically present to see what I was wearing.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why are people surprised that I don't have a girlfriend?

Why are people surprised that I have never had and do not have a girlfriend? I am 19 and I have been at University for about 2 months now and my friends and acquaintances who have found out in some way or another have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date an actress/actor?

I am not talking about an A-Lister a la Angelina, Clooney and co. I mean aspiring actress/actor, that does it passionately, runs from audition to audition trying to make it somehow. I am in acting school and want to do...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, do you find country guys, or preppy guys more attractive?

Do you like a guy who lives a full on country life style, or a guy who seems more comfortable with social events and white collar affairs? How about a guy who is preppy, but enjoys things like camping, fishing, canoeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I give him the wrong impression?

So I have a guy friend at work I love talking to him and we have a ton in common. After two months of hanging out at work he got a girlfriend. I was a little bummed because I was starting to really like him but he seemed...

shortay92

Xper 6 Age: 33

How to cheer up my boyfriend after pissing him off?

I was so silly pissing my boyfriend off, I hurt him. We made up but I am still feeling that he is down of my behavior. Give me the best ideas in the world that will cheer him up .. No sex ideas please

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

She thinks I am trying to steal her boyfriend. Advice?

This feud has been going on since March 2009 when my guy friend began to date this girl named Sam. At first things seemed to be alright between Sam and I till one day she got it in her head that I wanted her boyfriend,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think its attractive when a girls eyes shine?

some peoples eyes reflect light slightly in direct sunlight and shine link or does it not make much difference? i notice hazel eyes do this a lot more easily than pure colours like dark brown or bluey grey

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I text him or wait? scorpio

The guy I'm dating is really busy and recently been stressed which I credit for our lack of seeing , talking to each other often.. I truly do think that he is still interested just doesn't have the time he would like to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend is sending money to his ex. How should I approach the situation?

We've been together for a year and several months. He was with his ex girlfriend for 5 years. The reason they broke up was because of the distance. Which I don't understand because we are also in a long distance...

MrsAnonymous

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is it true that I can't get rid of cellulite?

I read that you can't really get rid of it, Buttt I realllllyyy wanna get rid of it, or at least a little bet :( Its uglyyyy I don't want that, What should I do! Im 69 KG. Would it help if I lost weight ?

queen-b

Explorer Age: 32

Why after telling my boyfriend I'm pregnant, he is ignoring me?

I told my boyfriend that I'm pregnant. He is not returning my phone calls. He came by to see some neighbors, but did not come by to see me. Why is he ignoring me? This hurts so bad!

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Butt Pads, what do you guys think?

okay so some of my friends wear them and I just wanted to know what guys think about them?

PrincessBlue347

Xper 5 Age: 29

Why do some guys try to act tough in front of their girlfriends?

I'm probably gonna be called the bad guy for this. But my uncle passed away and I was in a very mood. I'm shy, but I won't take any mistreatment from any man or woman. This athlete at my college who is known to be an...

Bornnardmt

Xper 3 Age: 36

Texting: Hot and cold game - do guys that too?

This guy I'm seeing is actually pretty interested in me, tells me how much he likes and wants me, he keeps texting me a lot etc. And I'm trying to initiate the whole texting thing too lately because I think he'd probably...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How to deal with anxiety at boyfriend's birthday?

We've been dating for 2 months. I'm his first girlfriend. He invited me to his birthday which is going to involve laser tag. I'm really worried since I've never played it and I'm afraid I'm going to suck and everyone will...

Christyyy

Xper 2 Age: 30

I had a dream that boyfriend was ignoring me? Meaning?

We've been going out for 2 months now. I'm his first girlfriend. Everything is going pretty good. I over think a lot and can't really believe that someone actually likes me. It's still hard to believe. He's sweet and a...

SoTanya

Xper 3 Age: 29

Fashion & Beauty

Guys: What's your opinion about this body type?

I mean the pear-shaped girls..I absolutely hate my thighs they make me look fatter and disproportionated. What is your opinion on a girl that looks like this? : link And what about this?(smaller though,it's too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If girls can hold hands together, why can't guys (unless gays)?

So I always wonder this why is it OK for straight girls to hold hands but not guys without being called "gay"? I am straight myself and I don't see how two guys holding hands is gay when girls aren't lesbians when they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My girlfriend and brother slept in the same bed (no sex) Should I be mad?

1. They were both and their group on schoolies trip, a big celebration school leavers have at the end of the year. I'm 2 years older than her 2. There were other guys and girls in the room 3. She says she couldn't get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies its research haha how do Act around your crush?

i'm trying to see how girls handle themselves in certain situations and I'm curious to know how you handle siting next to your crush or walking them...honestly I want to learn more about you females and how you handle...

OldboyJon

Xper 7 Age: 34

What does it mean when a guy says you are "chill"?

I really like this guy and my friend who is our mutual friend brought up my name and he thinks I'm chill. He always chats me first and we have good conversations and I see him staring at me. Even today he randomly...

Anonymous

(25-29)