All Questions

How to deal with a loner friend?

Ok so I have this friend who's a guy. He's kind of a shy introverted loner type of person, which is fine by me. The problem is we only hangout like once a month. Plus, he's super cheap. He never answers the phone but will...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a guy always stares at your butt?

every time I get off the bus I walk by him and he stares at by butt and I know he does cause I've caught him when I turn around and friends have told me he does and he admits to staring at my butt when I leave and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, if you let a (maybe even drunk) girl sleep over...

maybe you are drunk too, whatever, just in general, you let a girl friend stay over as she can't drive anymore/missed the last train/bus whatever, do you expect anything from it? and if not, lets say you end up cuddling...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Coming on too strong vs. not coming on strong enough early on in dating?

This question is mainly aimed at girls, but insightful and experienced guys can please answer too. Can you LIST some examples on how men sometimes make bad decisions early on in dating? Such as: Too strong: - giving a...

Shpongolia

Yoda Age: 41

At what age do women wise up and stop going for the bad boy/womanizer?

I've noticed most girls my age, 21, say they want a smart caring guy. Yet they go out with the guy who is just looking for sex, or ones that abuse, steal, and treat them like crap with no regard for their feelings. I...

cromick

Xper 5 Age: 34

Flowers from a Booty Call?

I've been seeing this guy on and off over the last 2 years. In my mind's eye, we're just each others' booty calls. So it really surprised me today when he sent me a beautiful text wishing me Happy Valentine's Day. I...

Lilithija

Xper 5 Age: 36

Does anyone else think love and relationships are overrated?

Few days ago, I figured out the solution to why women don't like me. The solution is for me to not date or try to attract women at all, in fact I find love and relationships overrated now. I could honestly live my entire...

Bornnardmt

Xper 3 Age: 36

Shopping & Gifts

How to say "dream" in different languages?

I want as many different languages as I can get. Thankyou.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a guy because he saved your life?

Whether he was good looking or an eye sore, I'm just curious lol

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a very skinny guy ?

What do girls think of very skinny guys? Would you date such a guy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Need quick answers please! Should I text her tomorrow?

Ok so to sum it all up: I met this girl playing basketball, we played for a while together, grabbed a smoothie afterward (even though she had to get to dinner...she went with me to the place and talked for a while first),...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I convince my girlfriend to get fat?

She's skinny and needs some fat on her. I would like her to be bigger and to jiggle with every move she makes. I don't want to make her immobile or anything evil like that, just a lot of fat to jiggle and squeeze.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my friend keep bringing up my ex?

Why does my friend keep bringing up my ex? She's knows good and well that we broke up less than a month ago, yet she constantly brings him up. This is not helping me, the break up is still fresh and I'm trying to move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why did he turn around and look at me?

So there's this guy I have a crush on I don't know if he finds me attractive since I haven't seen any obvious signs from him. But I think he might know I like him since once I tried to make strong eye contact but he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

If, on Facebook, you send someone a message, then block them?

Say you send someone a message on fb then block them. Fb has thing that lets you see when your message has been seen. If you unblock that person, will it still tell you if that message has been read, if it has been read...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does being wise beyond your years completely eliminate you from the dating scene?

I would argue that pretty much every good guy is wise beyond their years and because of that, they are often overlooked by young women that are of their age. Why is this so? Sure many girls look for a fun partner but at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Frustrated. friends think he's ugly and fat but....I actually like him.

He's not tall, not too good looking and kind of on the chubbs side. I actually like him for HIM, there was something about him, his confidence, social skills, friendliness, funny, popular ...and quite charming. We have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Guy, why does he ignore me when his wife shows up?

This guy at my work has a naturally flirty demeanour and everyone knows it. He has taken it a little far with me though and once he got in trouble for sexual harassment and was forced by his supervisor to apologize to me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to deal with bf's sister always hanging out with us?

I am glad my boyfriend is family oriented and I even like hanging out with his sister. It just seems like the closer I got to my boyfriend, the more she hangs around a lot. Whenever I'm with him, she's always there and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is money an aphrodisiac for women?

Is money an aphrodisiac for women? Yes, No, Depends?

Dragan

Guru Age: 40

Flirting

I rejected him, and now want him! Help!

He approached me at a club over a year ago and I wasn't interested in him and told him I was waiting on my boyfriend, which was a complete lie. I just didn't want to hurt his feelings. Anyhow, months later I saw the same...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

How flirty is a game of footsie?

like if this guy and I have been hanging out and I want to kind of flirt but not be TOO out there...would initiating a game of footsie (shoes on) be bad? guys, how would you interpret this?

lana77

Xper 6 Age: 38

Health & Fitness

How much do girls like green eyes?

My eyes are very green, like grass haha. I always get complaments from girls (guys don't seem to care much) but I was wondering how much girls REALLY like them, like dose it make me more attractive to them? Or are they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why my female friend stare at me?

Why she stare at me when I'm not look then when I catch her she gaze into my eyes and smile but she hold if a little longer. When she do this she also touches me. We been hanging out every day since December. Now things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are VW Golf so popular?

Would you rather not get something else for that money?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my ex invite me to a Facebook event when we've had no contact for 4 months?

Yesterday evening he invited me to a Facebook event for a special occasion of his. I was shocked to see his name on my notifications but I just let it go thinking that it didn't mean anything and he probably invited all...

brown_eyed_blonde

Xper 5 Age: 38

Valentine's Day

Falsely accused my girlfriend of cheating, advice please?

I have always fully trusted my girlfriend but I don't know what got over me. The text she sent me was so suspicious it made me think negative things. She sent me a text saying, "talk to you tonight at church and at 10:15...

luisjr

Xper 5 Age: 38

Should I be mad/disappointed? Friend bailed on my birthday?

I had a party last Saturday, and my friend didn't come because partying isn't her thing I guess and her boyfriend didn't want her to go (like usual.) I was cool about it, and she said she would spend my actual birthday...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your girlfriend can't stop saying how she hates her ex when the topic is brought up?

My girlfriend randomly brought up how her ex is dating this girl who is a bigger woman. She then kept on saying how she hated her ex continously and then kept making fun of the girl who is bigger even though mygf has...

brettb

Xper 7 Age: 34

Marriage & Weddings

Guys, would you rather a career oriented or family oriented woman?

I'm talking about for a wife, would you rather an educated, career oriented woman or a (what some might perceive as) 'subservient,' weak minded stay at home wife and mother? Keep in mind, both women women are good wives...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

GUYS: What makes you fall in love?

Is it: when a girl withholds sex and makes you wait (therefore you respect her more)? when a girl doesn't hesitate to be intimate (therefore you feel connected)? when a girl makes you laugh? when a girl plays 'hard...

guycurious2012

Xper 5 Age: 39