All Questions

I'm currently engaged but I can't stop thinking about my ex-what should I do?

It's been about 3 or so months since I've heard from my ex. I've been with my current partner for 7 months and I proposed 3 months in. I know, too soon. I really like this girl, but... I don't feel the connection like I...

aussielad2014

Xper 3 Age: 37

Girls, why would you act bitchy and sarcastic towards a guy one minute and then talk to him normally the next?

What does it mean? This girl can be a bit bitchy towards me, I don't really care I just let it go but then she starts acting nice and talking and joking with me. when she is bitchy I take it as a sign to leave her alone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do men find black women to be the least attractive throughout race, is this a solution?

link I am generally tired of this in the States, what men claim to be bad attitudes and masculine features, it's a weird type of racism because this time the women are alone. I am thinking that I do not fit any...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

If someone contacts you out of the blue, do you think it's because they once valued you?

or that they have some selfish motive to contact you cause theyre lonely? it doesn't have to be romantic it could be about friendship too.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys try to keep their options open this way?

I have a friend who's been dating this girl, but still thinks he needs to keep his options open just in case it doesn't work out. I don't understand this. If he likes the girl he's dating, why does he need to keep...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's so Attractive about Johnny Depp?

What's so attractive about this guy? In which movie he was the hottest? And Why?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do guys ever regret letting a good girl go?

I adored my ex-boyfriend and would have done absolutely anything for him, I just can't understand why he would let it all go? How can you go for being so in love to not feeling anything at all? I know I just have to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: Do you find it more attractive if a girl wears revealing clothing, or covers up more?

After seeing the article on Yahoo about bikinis going out of style and one-piecies becoming more popular, I started to wonder... Can covering up more honestly be more attractive? And would this also apply to everyday...

Rosesblossoms29

Xper 3 Age: 31

What would you think when every time you come online on Facebook, your crush goes offline?

Consider a scenario in which you have a crush, or you know someone who you know or suspect has a crush on you. And when you come online on Facebook, he or she goes offline within a couple of seconds. Let's say this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you save your pet over a human stranger?

If you were forced to choose between your pet and a stranger who would you save and why?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are some steps to go from average to hot?

If you're a regular Jane type of girl, some people think you're cute, but you know you're not using your whole potential how can you go from OK to hot?I feel that if I really made some effort I could be a dime, but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would my boyfriend call me "mom"?

We've been together for 5 months now and known each other for a year. We've passed the initial phase and now we're just comfortable being with each other. My boyfriend has this habit of having me cuddle him, and he'll...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: How would you react to getting a kiss on the cheek from a girl you like a lot?

I haven't seen the guy I'm seeing (very close to dating) in 18 days, due to winter break. We're exchanging Christmas gifts (lil late I know XD) And I was thinking about hugging him and kissing his cheek after thanking him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, how do you feel about a girl wearing Nurse's scrubs?

I'm a senior in high school. I go to a special tech school, and I have the opportunity to wear Nurse's scrubs, (royal blue top and black pants) or I can dress up and wear business casual. My friend and I were discussing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My best guy friend hates my crush, what do I do?

My crush, let's call him Adam. We've been flirting with each other for some time and everyone around us can tell we like each other. But my best guy friend is less than impressed. These two guys have known each other for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy says you are angelic, what does that mean?

This guy I've been sort of seeing told me "you are so angelic, like oh my gosh, I feel I'll hurt you" what does he mean by that...I'm confused because it makes him very hesitant with me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Guy kissed me and I pushed him off. Will my boyfriend be mad?

Ok I desperately need advice! I'm at home in Seattle for winter break, my boyfriend is in LA. I went out with high school friends to a bar the other night, and one of my guy friends from high school kissed me. I pushed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

If I'm trying to use the no-contact rule, should I delete my ex off Facebook?

I've heard and read that the no-contact rule after a breakup actually works. You wish him good luck and leave it at that. If he talks to you, you're supposed to keep it minimal and without talking to him, find ways that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Most girls have a boring life but pretend they haven’t?

I just read this quote and it made me smile. is that really true? even the pretty ones? I always get the impression that most of them get tons of cool guys and girls doing cool stuff with them.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex is engaged and I still love him, should I contact him?

We broke up almost three years ago now because I left him for my ex boyfriend. I now have a child with that boyfriend and we are no longer together. I really miss the guy I left, but he's engaged now! They got engaged...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think of men wearing rings?

How do you feel about men wearing rings? I'm not talking about wedding rings or class rings. Normally I only wear one ring and I wear it on my left index finger. Is that acceptable? I see some men with multiple rings in...

SouthernMan

Xper 6 Age: 38

Boyfriend/girlfriend forgot your anniversary

the title basically says it all... i would just like to know how you reacted or will react if your significant other forgot your anniversary ? (specially if your last anniversary was planned and all that... beforehand)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it so hard to date a hot girl?

A conversation I had with someone last night got me curious.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Why some Vegans impose their lifestyle on others?

I was talking to a vegan this morning (one of my buddies friends) and she is a complete whackjob. The first thing she did was bring up the fact that I am eating foods from an animal in turmoil (I was eating eggs). I...

shumailkazimi

Explorer Age: 34

Relationships

Boyfriend has pictures of other girls in his phone. Should I be concerned?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and today I was using his phone to take pictures because my phone camera sucks. I was going through the photos when I was done and I noticed a picture of some girl in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you notice when your body brush with girls while walking?

When I'm out with my guy buddy I notice our bodies tend to brush each other a lot. It's accidental on my part of course. We'd be walking and then our arms would be brushing or like today, my hands were somewhere at his...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Marriage & Weddings

Im Tired of my husband! I hate him!

I've been married to him for 3 years. At first while we were dating he was such a perfect guy to me, he is handsome, good looking and good at making people like him. He started to become emotionally distant to me few...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I can't tell if he's ignoring me because he likes me or doesn't like me.

I started a new part time job about 3 months ago. I like a guy that is in charge of the cashiers. I had a feeling from the first time I saw him that some feelings would develop for him. I tried to fight it but I have...

Quorra89

Xper 6 Age: 36

My parents don't like my Asian boyfriend, what should I do?

He is a perfect boyfriend. My parents don't like him just becasue he is Asian,What should I do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can you be 100% brutally honest with your boyfriend or girlfriend?

How do you do it? How do you avoiding hiding ANYTHING and NEVER lying for ANY reason? I'm an extremely honest person already, but I don't always tell my boyfriend everything that I'm feeling or rather in the past I...

Katy16

Guru Age: 30

How to get a girl to like you? Flirt with her friends!

Males and Females can answer and vote. The best way to get a girl to like you is to pay limited attention to her, be funny and flirt with her friends. I'm definitely not saying ignore the one you really like, I'm just...

AnonymouslyConfused

Xper 5 Age: 42

I ran a background check on the guy I'm dating. Do I confront him with what I found?

I've been talking to this guy for a couple months and things are going great. He is a perfect gentleman and he spoils me with affection. I don't normally run background checks on guys I date but for some reason I felt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How do you quickly spot a shallow guy? A player? Are they the same?

Are they easy to pick out? Any tell-tale signs of a shallow guy? Met a new guy... can't tell if he's shallow or not. Sometimes he can be so nice and so sweet, but other times... it only seems like he wants sex. Every...

Anonymous

(36-45)