All Questions

Are you the pretty or ugly sibling?

A lot of times there will be a good looking sibling and a less attractive sibling. Which one are you? I'm the lesser attractive of my siblings.

sunmonster

Explorer Age: 34

How to use a guy for his money?

I'm not interested in real relationships, I'm sexy hot and young. I don't have money though. Guys are so easily seduced by sex I take it this won't be very hard, but how do I go about it? How do I make sure he actually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

It's been 7 months and I STILL miss my ex-boyfriend, why?

We broke up in June of 2011 (this year). And I have never had such a hard time with a break-up. I really loved him and still do and my heart just aches for him. I miss his hugs, kisses, how smart he is, and everything...

loveme76

Xper 5 Age: 50

What does "if it didn't work out, it wasn't meant to be" mean to you?

To me it sounds being very passive, not really giving an effort, not trying to make them work out. That when things do happen, they happen somewhat easily. What does it mean to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a girl leaves in the middle of the night?

We're in college and I have a reputation of being a player. This girl is really pretty and it took me awhile to get her to come back with me, but I finally did. We had sex and afterward I passed out. I woke up the next...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like guys who have a beauty mark on their face?

I have a small one on my upper lip, is it good, bad, weird?

Azultet

Xper 5 Age: 39

My boyfriend told me he thinks my best friend is "hot." ?

This really got me heated. Not the fact that he thinks she's attractive, but the fact that he told me. I never brag to him about attractive guys I see, so it's not like I'm being hypocritical. I'll admit though, it does...

MissAimeenaLee

Xper 5 Age: 32

Texting a guy you met in the club

alright so I met this nice guy in the club Friday night. I seen him bouncing around from girl to girl. I had really wanted him to ask me to dance, but he'd look at me and just walk past me. so I was like eh whatever maybe...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a girl treats you differently than everybody else?

I met this girl a few months ago. At first she was just like she is with everybody else: chatty, a bit of a smart ass and sarcastic. As we got to know each other, she started to change. Now all our interactions are very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do, I accidentally called this guy I like.

I accidentally called this guy at night when I was drunk, it was a genuine mistake but what makes it worse is that I have a crush on him and he probably knows this. I was also kinda getting signs he liked me too. I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Confessing your feelings for someone. Success stories?

For all you men and women, please share your stories when it came to you telling a friend that you like/love them. What happened? How did you talk to them about it? Is confessing a good idea? Thanks

csk28

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guy friend cuddling/spooning?

So I have this guy friend who I've become fairly close to over the past couple of months. He started out as being just a friend to me, but I've honestly started developing feelings for him. I'm not sure what he sees me as...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys think their ex becomes more beautiful after their break up?

What I mean to ask , is there any particular thing about her that changes? Besides from becoming emotionally stronger and more mature? Does she look more blooming to you? I'm kind of curious about this topic...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He hasn't taken me on a date after 7 months?

So I've been seeing this guy for 7 months and he hasn't made any effort to take me on a date or anything. I mean, I don't want to sound materialistic or snobby, but I'd like to go on a date once in a while with my guy. At...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Asking a teacher to Prom?

Hey guys I really want to take my teacher to prom, I've been into him for ages already and as I am leaving I really want to. However, I'm not sure.. some advice would be great. P.S he is only 9 years older then me

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does the "compliment and walk away" approach really work?

I was watching a show where two guys were competing over who could get more dates in one week. The one guy, at first, was not doing it right, while the other guy was getting girls left and right. While the guy who was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are the signs of being ugly?

I feel like I'm ugly :( My face looks like a heart, big cheek bone and they are high and sticking out from the side So it makes my faces skin stick in. My jaw is good it's squarish I like that part :) do they have a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are people uglier than me getting boyfriends?

I'm a fairly attractive girl, but I'm kinda shy. And I see all these girls who are not quite as pretty as me (not being mean, but its kinda true), and not even that nice, getting boyfriends and dating and no one asks me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ever kissed someone with full lips?

Lol I'm asking because I have full lips, and I wonder if it feels different, or no difference at all from someone with average or thin lips?

oOsweet~o~nessOo

Xper 6 Age: 32

Other

Should I be mad at boyfriend for getting drunk?

Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and today he decides to go to a party and get drunk. I always tell him everything but he hardly tells me anything. So he told me he had to go somewhere, didn't talk...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Would you rather have sexy or cute?

would you rather a girl that is overall sexy, including personality and looks, or unbelievably cute and you wanna just hug her and kiss her forever lol ?

Hedleybabe

Xper 5 Age: 35

Shopping & Gifts

Christmas gift ideas for girlfriend of 6 months?

every time I ask her what she wants she just asks for a phone case, but I wanna get her something that means something. Please give me suggestions, spending limit is around $75-$100. Thanks

jlandry287

Xper 5 Age: 33

Dumpers and Dumpees, do you normally hear back from your ex one day?

Well, the love of my life left me for another guy recently, and I won't lie to you guys. I am looking here for hope. I've heard from a lot of people, after getting dumped around 6 months or so afterward, the ex will come...

Zimbo113

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

What are you most insecure about? Physical and non physical?

Name something on your body you are insecure about, then something nonphysical you are insecure about. For instance Physical: My upper arms Nonphysical: afraid people will ignore me. :-\ you?

Kain6th

Xper 4 Age: 42

Arm around shoulder of girl I like?

i am about to be on winter break for about two months and there is a girl I like that I want to meet up with over the break. I think she likes me and I want to make a move before its too late. well when we are walking on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He laughs when I compliment/flirt?

Whenever I compliment the guy I like (via text) he always responds with "hahaha" Same thing if I'm obviously flirting with him. What does this mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I let him know I won't wait around forever?

There's a guy who I'm pretty sure is blatently not interested any more, but I have no idea if I'm right or not. I don't want to say something and mess things up if I'm wrong. But I feel like I need to let him know that I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this Chanel watch fake or real?

Kayyyyy, so I found what a Chanel watch after I ran it over, it still works but it got a little bit scratched up :$ I'm just wondering if it's legit or not. It has rivets where it's supposed to but otherwise I have no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Had a guy ask me what my longest relationship was?

I had a guy I was dating how long my longest relationship has been. my longest has been 2 months and it was with a guy who lived an hour away so it was kind of long distance. The guy who asked me said that was a really...

kareiche

Xper 5 Age: 42

Do guys ever miss their ex gf's?

i know it sounds stupid and I know that guys are humans just like us girls but my Q is.. Do guys miss their ex so much that they wanna get back to them or smthin? how much time will it takes for a guy to miss an ex?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls stare at ugly people?

There seems to be a lot of girls starting at me, or looking at me alot, are they looking at how ugly I am ? ;(

Anonymous

(30-35)

Going swimming with my boyfriend? Feel insecure...?

Soo I'm supposed to go swimming with my boo tomorrow, and although I'm not fat, I have a bit of a stomach. What do you guys think of when you see a girl in a bikini? Is it really the girl's confidence that makes her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why does my boyfriend always want to watch horror movies with me?

Doesn't he have friends who can watch them with him? I hate horror movies, they scare the sh*t out of me and I can't sleep afterward. He knows that, so why does he still insist on watching those movies with me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend cheat on me and now he's mad at me?

so a month ago, my boyfriend drunk cheated on me. I gave him another chance after a looong conversation. We were really happy the month afterward, it was better than ever. Then I got this emotional breakdown, about...

Anonymous

(30-35)