All Questions

Why would he make a sound when hugging? Why do you do it?

So this guy that I like, whenever we see each other, we give each other a tight hug and then he makes a 'mmm' sound while hugging. I find this strange but cute and would like to know why he would do this? Thanks

chocofrog1

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why do I find myself more attractive when stoned?

For some reason I find myself the most attractive when I look in the mirror when I'm stoned. When I'm drunk I think I look worse the when I'm sober, but when I'm stoned I think look hot as hell in the mirror. it's like...

sunshine2

Xper 7 Age: 34

Guys should take the initiative, right?

I read and always heard that guys should try more and take the first step .. that guys like to try hard and not get everything easily. Is this true? I'm dating one now, and I'm affectionate but it was him who first say...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Boyfriend won't initiate conversation anymore... why?

My boyfriend of nearly 3 months and I used to talk just about everyday. Then my phone was stolen which pretty much coincided with exam week, during which we barely talked. He said it was because of exam week, which was...

LollyPopsicle

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

He introduced me to his family but hasn't said "I love you" yet.

My 10 month boyfriend seems to taking things real slow. I've met his family in a pretty formal way last month. He asked me to move in together 2 months ago. He cares about me a lot, but he hasn't not even once said that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean to call a girl ''gata'' (cat) in Spanish?

what does it mean to call a girl ''gata'' (cat) in Spanish? Is it a compliment?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I can't tell if my crush asked me to "hang out". What should I do?

I really like this guy. He is very outgoing with me, he says hi every time that see me and he tries to sit/be near to be during classes or when we are in the studio. We have one class together and today he asked me if we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We get into little fights but we're not even dating?

i've liked this girl for so long and she has done nothing but reject me over and over again. but I still want her more than any other girl we are still friends. we talk all the time but we get into little fights with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl staring and don't look away what does that mean?

So there was this girl at the gym seen her many times... So I walked to the fitness machine and caught her staring she didn't smile or anything, she didn't look away we had an eye contact for like 5 seconds then I looked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do girls give me blank stares?

i don't know if they're interested, think I'm funny looking, or what... i do walk around with my "poker face" because most of the time I am neither happy nor sad. if I keep eye contact they will either look away or just...

zchhdsll

Xper 5 Age: 33

I want to text my crush but don't know what to say!

I really want to talk to my crush through texting but I don't know what to talk about! It's because last night I accidentally sent a message to him saying who he likes and it was supposed to go to my friend, he called me...

Pibber

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Why does she go from very outgoing to shy around me?

she went from outgoing to shy around me. we started off as small talk I approached her. then we talked about how she is newly single and about her past relationships. she asked me for advice. she gave me a brief history...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would my crush do this, he put both thumbs up and gave me a big smile?

My crush did this: As I was walking past him, he turned towards me and asked me how I was and then as I was leaving he said bye, with a big smile on his face, staring into my eyes deeply and he put both thumbs up and he...

HoneySpiceSugar

Xper 5 Age: 38

17 years old and desperate for a boyfriend!?

At this point I feel so damn lonely.. I have never been on a date and never even kissed a guy! its so sad! and I'm a SENIOR in high school..it kills. and you know what else..guys in my school say in HOT and SEXY all...

tamiii3

Xper 5 Age: 31

Health & Fitness

How can I improve my body (picture included)

link As you can see, I'm overweight and have a fair bit of weight to lose. You can also see I tend to store weight in my lower body. I've started eating healthily and running most days, but beyond that, what else can I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I feel unappreciated by my boyfriend sometimes :(

I am not sure if I am being rational or just needing more attention from my boyfriend. I know that particularly when it's around the end of the month that his work responsibilities are abundant and he is usually pretty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do some women talk in that sexy high pitched voice?

Some women have a very sexy voice, like a high pitched tone and it is quite attractive.

Valhalla

Xper 3 Age: 63

If a coworker puts his arm around your waist, is he flirting?

Yesterday I told a coworker I liked his name badge and that it was a good pic of him and he smiled and put his arm around my waist.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

I hate how my parents favor my sister over me. Anyone else feel they are the least favored one?

I mean it would have been OK if I didn’t notice or my mother didn’t make it so obvious that she was the most favored, but the signs are so clear to me. I feel like I’m always in competition with my sister and having to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls do you like guy with broad shoulders?

Does it affect the appearance of a guy at all? Jut wondering thanks!

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is the push-up bra a turn off?

When you make out with your girlfriend and she is wearing a push up bra .. does that bother you in anyway ?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My step cousin? kissed me!! help!

Okay,so my mom and dad got divorced about two years ago. Both of my parents got remarried with in a year after their divorce. I stayed with my dad for a while now I'm with my mom. Her new husband is grate. His parents...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My friend is the whole package -looks, smarts, and nice - but guys don't approach her. WTF?

One of my best friends is one of those whole package girls. She's beautiful, smart, and has a great personality. She's good with kids, she's hardworking, and funny. Basically she what I think would be a man's dream girl....

ya_ya_ask_already

Xper 6 Age: 39

Aquarius men, are you indecisive ?

is it hard for you all to make decisions? are you more submissive in nature ? would you like your love interest to make the first step in exclusivity?

blackberries27

Xper 5 Age: 41

Jenna from Awkward: Less makeup or more?

If you watch Awkward, you're used to seeing Jenna a certain way: link Really fresh faced and young looking. But outside of the show, actress Ashley Rickards does her makeup like this: link link Which look do...

pr3ttybr0wn

Master Age: 38

How to tell if shy girl enjoyed the first date?

I just went on a first date with a shy girl. She was doing a good amount of talking, but overall she is shy. So I don't think she'll be making any moves to kiss, hold hands, or anything like that... anyway, she was doing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is My Professor Flirting?

Okay I'm 20, he's 40 something married with kids. I'd never do anything with him but I do have a crush on him, that being said I it's more intellectual than physical. I just want to know other people's opinions as to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like the male fashion model look?

curious to see if any of you like that look. its not the same as the AE or abercombie American model that is very muscular/athletic. I'm asking about the 'Euro' high fashion male model that is usually thinner

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend has dated blondes and I'm a brunette?

My boyfriend of 8 months has dated blondes and was married to one. I'm a brunette and half Asian which is completely different then whom he has dated. It makes me feel weird and uncomfortable knowing that, that was the...

mlinds1

Xper 5 Age: 39

I need her address to pick her up for date...should I text her?

I'm picking this girl up for a first date. The problem is, I don't know where she lives. Should I just text her the day before and ask her what her address is? The reason I'm wary of this is because so far I've been...

Anonymous

(36-45)