All Questions

Trying to walk away from the friend zone?

I've fallen for a girl who calls me her "best friend". She knows it, and she's told me that she thinks we're better off as friends. I know that means that she is just not attracted to me. I can't continue being "just...

misterbill71

Xper 6 Age: 54

Why do girls think bad of guys who go to the gym?

link in that previous question, -StillWater- answered saying guys who go to the gym are self obsessed ? do all girls think like this ? why can't a guy have an hour or hour and a half to himself 3-4 times a week to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What should I wear to his place? advice!!

so I am going over this guys house and this will be our first time meeting. I was thinking of wearing a dress but is that too much for just going over his house? what do you think I should wear? thanks

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Back in to spending time with my ex boyfriend? please help!

this is a little long, but I reeeeally need some advice! So, I've had an on and off (off once) relationship with my ex boyfriend for about 7 years. Long story short, our break up was rough and slightly dragged out. Now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do? - My crush admitted he liked me!! :D

Okay, so I have had a crush on this guy for at least six months but he has always liked somebody else (even though I was always in his top five) and I never told him because I wouldn't rate myself as high as them. Anyway,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy calls you sexy sexy?

Just met a guy online dating site I joined he asked for a picture of me and sent him a picture of me he said the first picture I sent that I looked "Amazing" After he saw my 1st picture he asked for another one and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

My girlfriend the "realist"

So the other night my girlfriend and I watched Blue Valentine (Note: do not watch this movie with your significant other) and it sparked a conversation afterward about how fragile relationships are, and how most of them...

sictransit

Xper 5 Age: 40

Men, why do you do the head nod to the girl?

personally I find it rude like you can't be bothered to talk to us. This one guy I kinda like, like I waved and smiled at him and before he would say like hi how are you, and stuff like that or ask how long I'm working....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do short girls like tall guys so much?

it's always the short girls I notice that like me most of the tall girls don't notice me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Is Arnold Schwarzenegger a feminist sex symbol? Appealed to Kennedy women and?

You've all heard he fathered a child with one of the housekeepers..

martyfellow

Editor Age: 46

If a guy says he sorta kinda misses you, does that usually mean he doesn't?

I just talked to my ex and I told him I wanted to see how he was and that's why I was talking to him again and he said he "sorta kinda missed me lol". I told him I sorta kinda missed him maybe too and he said good we're...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Guys- Do you like girls that are "tough cookies"?

Guys to you like girls that are "tough cookies" (but not the tomboy kind) and may even think they are hot. Or do you think they are too complicated and should be medicated?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does a guy saying "You deserve better" really mean?

When we were breaking up my boyfriend said things like "I don't want to keep hurting you" and "You deserve someone better than me." He does have a low self esteem. He has a rough past that he's not proud of, and he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you like being tickled?

I dated a girl once who claimed to hate it, but it was fun so I did it anyways hehe I was wondering, how many of you like being tickled and how many of you hate it.

Asailum

Xper 4 Age: 39

Fashion & Beauty

Why do girls like buying Victoria's Secret underwear way more compared to?

the ones like Fruit of the Loom that aren't as expensive?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does a neck massage mean from your guy friend?

I work with my guy friend and when he comes in to work he hugs me every time but its weird today he came up behind me and started massaging my neck? What does this mean I don't know if he's just being nice or trying to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He likes my hair in a bun?

I normally wear my hair down and he told me liked my hair up when he saw me with a bun today. Does he like me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

I'm short, with muscular/athletic legs & my friends make fun of me?

I would really like to be able to wear shorts or a summer dress this summer, but the problem is I'm athletic, I'm 5'3 and a runner in track and my legs are muscular but not man muscles, more of a runners legs and my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Guy friend calls me miss?

I have a friend- who knows my name of course. But occasionally in conversation he will say how are you miss? Or over text message he will say thanks miss? What's with this?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl never mentions a boyfriend after several months, is she single or does she like me?

I know that just because a girl never mentions a boyfriend doesn't mean she has one or doesn't have one. However, I'd figure a girl can put all doubt aside and mention it at some point. Does that mean she likes me? I...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

Why don't guys ever hit on me in public?

it seems like guys in school or in public (at work where I cashier) rarely hit one me. the only guys who have ever come up to me were to ask me for directions while waiting for the train or male professors who make small...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

If he's in love with me, then why was he so willing to let me go so easily?

why was he so willing to let me go so easily? maybe not to be dramatic about it? he was depressed looking, but it was surprising how easy it was for him.

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend says he's tired of my body?

everyday he feels the need to tell me I'm fat and that he finds it hard to find attractive things about me yet he loves me to pieces and doesn't wanna let me go and I feel the same back to him but how do I tell him that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Does cute mean girlfriend material?

A girl I never talk to told me that this boy thinks I'm really cute. I've never talked to him but figured out we have gym together. I think he's cute too but we've never talked? Do you think he thinks I'm cute and nothing...

treblemaker

Xper 5 Age: 35

How to know when he is in denial about liking you?

This is the situation: I have a close guy-friend (we're just getting closer and closer), who's been flirting (but not from day 1, but it started 3 months ago) with me. I flirt back, and I've realized I'm starting to like...

TheWriter

Xper 5 Age: 32

Will a player ever introduce you to his friends?

I had my doubts about this guy I started talking to. I thought he was a player & I even have other people that don't know him personally, think he is a player as well. However, one night he agreed to have a group date...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I failed the Walmart assessment?

i FAILED! how is that even possible? any tips? this is so gay.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do Married Men Really Need Women as Friends?

Why would a married man actively seek to rekindle an old friendship with a long, lost female friend? My friend and I met when we were in college. In times of need, he always had my back and was a faithful, true friend....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

You find out the guy you like is going bald...deal breaker?

He's cute, has a nice smile, a great personality..you never saw him without a hat, so one day while getting drunk with him...you take off his hat...and WOW...he's really going bald...you're in your mid 20's and so is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl keeps liking my Facebook statuses?

Before she didn't do this. Then later on I met her in person and we talked like in a friendly way. Since then I notice that she likes almost all my statuses (not every single one of course). Even some dull ones about...

JuniorLuis

Xper 3 Age: 38