All Questions

Why do guys not have the balls to talk to a girl?

I know so many guys that don't have the balls to talk to a girl that they think is pretty or a girl they like... I don't understand. Why is that?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know my girlfriend's dad physically abuses her, what can I do?

My girlfriend is living with her dad (restraining order from mom, she's an abusive crazy too) and he's an alcoholic and has violent outbursts about once a week. She's already been through foster care at an earlier point...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys actually notice or care about the brands girls wear?

girls at my school are really critical about brands. they'll be like "she wears hollister so she's fake" or "she wears juicy so she's a snob". do guys do the same? I figure that if 1. the girl isn't obsessed with brands...

princess_for_life

Xper 3 Age: 31

Society & Politics

Guys with long eyelashes?

do girls like guys with long eyelashes or is it weird I have long and pretty black eyelashes and a lot of people think I wear mascara

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Boyfriend inattentive?

Well our relationship is fairly young. 1 month. we can only see each other over the weekends. When we hang out I love it. We watch TV together, movies, go to school dances, he came to a football game at my school, cuddle...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does being called "Cute" mean?

I thought about this today since my mother was talking with my teacher and she was telling him about how I was the cutest little girl, etc, VERY embarrassing thing, but then he looked at me and was like "SHE IS really...

monny1emano

Xper 5 Age: 35

This girl acts like she likes me one day, another day she acts like she doesn't even want to see me, flaky?

When I met her she was friendly and friendly no problem at all. But then she 'changed' she became cold towards me, although she was acting "shy" she was acting cold and wouldn't even talk to me, even when I was talking...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When should I invite my boyfriend over to my house?

I don't really want to invite him to my house anytime soon, because we're getting a lot of things redone and therefore everything is a wreck... I certainly don't want his first impression of my home to be a bad one :/ I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

10 year marriage with no spark?

I have been married for 10 years and my wife shows no affection. We do get along good but we are more like roommates. We both have careers and we also have three children. I can count on 1 hand the number of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls: Do you Like Being Picked Up Off Of The Ground During A Hug?

rocksongwriter

Guru Age: 45

Why do men stare at women?

This goes to men who know the women such as being in the same class/workplace or men who just randomly stare even if they don` t know you

tyt_2012

Yoda Age: 33

What does it mean when a guy talks about a future with you, but still says things like "it's my life!"?

When my boyfriend goes out with friends he never lets me know until he is walking out the door. it bothers me and makes feel like he doesn't respect me. I made a comment to him if he could maybe give me more notice so I...

concearnedlady

Xper 5 Age: 39

Asking a guy to homecoming over text?

I am SO freaked out to ask him in person...is asking a guy over texting not good?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Making a guy jealous?

Do girls try and make a guy jealous if she likes a guy and he's not responding to her flirting , a girl made me jealous by going off with a guy I know outside the club one night and it really hurt me ever since , only I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Whats it mean if they are a SLOW texter and take forever to respond back?

It seems like throughout the day he texts me SO slow but at night he is really good about it. I just feel like he wants hook ups because if he was truly interested wouldn't he want to always be talking to me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

New girlfriend is looking for handouts....I'm getting very angry. How do I confront her about it?

I've been dating a new girl for about 6 weeks. She's 20 and I'm in my late 20s. For the most part everything going well. She doesn't flake out, she keeps her word about meeting up. She drives to see me. She laughs at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girls, romance: Good vs Mushy

What sort of things do you girls consider romantic vs those that are plain mushy? My girlfriend says she's not into mushy romance, but I don't know what that might entail and I sure as hell don't want to have some of my...

bubbleboy

Xper 6 Age: 37

Why do the bad boys want good girls?

If the bad boys want good girls, wouldn't you think they would realize that some good girls don't want anything to do with bad boys? Like, there is a guy that likes me, and outside of his other, bad boy stuff, he's nice,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Do you know the difference between a North Indian accent versus a South Indian accent?

There is a big difference apparently! especially in their native tongues and English

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My girlfriend resents me?

I changed my mind about wanting a baby, I know its bad but I wasn't sure that I was ready for one and she asked me to be honest. iv expanded how I feel too young to be a dad (22) and that she puts pressure on my to have a...

Upperlower

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

Would white girls want to date an Asian guy?

i think I crashed into a white girl in our school, she's totally gorgeous and sophisticated...HOWEVER, I'm not really sure if a white girl would date an Asian guy like me. (not being racist.) its often to see white guy...

justinx1103

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

Is my boyfriend too busy for me? Or am I exaggerating?

Hello guys My boyfriend and have been together for 5months,but we've known each other for 3years,last year I moved but we kept in touch we would email and text a lot and at some point we realized we had feelings for each...

hazelsmith

Xper 5 Age: 36

Why does the phrase "ignorance is bliss" upset some people?

I have the word 'ignorance' tattooed on my wrist and the other day this guy complimented me on it but asked what it read (its facing me, he couldn't read it upside down) but when I told him what it said he got upset....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guy friend acting weird? Input appreciated!

So I've got a guy friend (mid 20s) that behaves weirdly with me a lot. Sometimes he'll talk to me when I see him, sometimes he's kinda moody. I noticed that he tends to do random stuff to get my attention. We don't really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I got a girl pregnant and now she wants to keep it. I don't want her to have the kid though. What should I do?

I have been having sex with this girl here at the University of Texas at Austin regularly for about 2 months now since I met her at a party my Frat was having, and she just told me she is pregnant and that she wants to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

She texted me "let's not see each other again" I really need help on that situation, please?

I have been going out with this girl almost two months now like we were new couple and it was a year before when I first sent her a text MS, I like her so much and I thought she would feel the same way about me, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl makes a profile pic of her and a guy, does it mean they are in a relationship?

Long story short, I like this guy but another girl has put a picture of the two of them together as her profile pic. What does this mean? On his profile it still says single and he has no pics of her... What is going on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Girlfriend doesn't want me touching her, but other guys can?

She doesn't want me touching her she basically told me so. So I don't but she's always brushing up against me or putting her feet against mine and poking me. She only does it wen other guys are around really, never in...

A-Vengeance

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guys: do you like the "cat-eye" look on girls?

Here are some examples: link link link I do it all the time, it's my favorite look. What do guys think of it?

ActingOnInstinct

Xper 5 Age: 36

Dating

Guys, would you ever date a silly girl?

Being my complete self just happens to be silly and fun, and I don't care what anybody thinks. Like I said, I'm very silly, playful, and I love having a good time. I like doing weird but fun things in public places......

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How do you prove to a girl that you're not just pursuing her to get in her pants?

I REALLY like this girl and we've been friends for about a year now. She's known I've liked her for a very long time. We aren't dating but I would love it more than anything. Every now and then she says things like "Guys...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think walking behind a hot girl?

I've always been curious as to what guys are thinking when they are staring and walking behind a girl they are attracted to. Honest answers wanted boys!

Anonymous

(30-35)

If your girlfriend doesn't want to go to parties, is that a deal breaker?

If your girlfriend cares about you A LOT, but she doesn't like to go to parties with you or hang out with you and your friends at parties, would that be a deal breaker? Would you consider it some type of rejection?

Anonymous

(30-35)