All Questions

Skipping anniversary?

Hey guys! My boyfriend and I will have been together for 1 year at the end of this month. He's amazing and we both agree that this is the best relationship either of us have been in so far. We've been planning out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

My boyfriend is controlling and ungrateful, what should I do?

My boyfriend is very bossy. He sees his bossiness as being helpful not annoying. I mean he tells me when to put gas in my car, what I should spend my money on, etc. He got so used to me doing things for him now he just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are double chins unattractive?

I have a bit of one. also my jaw line isn't as defined and attractive as others. I sorta have a baby face. I think I look better with facial hair since it sorta of "masks" those areas of my face and makes it look more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys - How do you know when a guy is playing hard to get? Is this guy I like doing that?

I really got a thing for this guy. My heart races really fast when I see him, and sometimes I get really sick to my stomach, the butterflies in my stomach. We're actually pretty good friends. He's somewhat shy around me....

twohearts4one

Xper 5 Age: 32

Society & Politics

Random tokens of appreciation.. Girls.

So do girls - and by 'girls' I mean girlfriends, like receiving random gifts from their partner...? Like is there any limits as-well, is there specific things girls hate and therefore would not want as a random gift?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a girl reject you, but then seem insecure at the same time?

this girl said she didn't like me as any more than a friend, but then she seemed insecure too or like scared I was "out to get her" or something, when I just wanted to be mature about the situation and be a good guy for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Apple Body Type vs. Hourglass Body Type Weight Gain?

A long time ago before I gained a lot of weight I had a really balanced hourglass figure. Now that I have gained like 70-80 lbs. I am pretty much an apple shape. Is it possible that when an hourglass gains a lot of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are women meaner than men?

why is it that the majority of the time I'm upset or put down about something its because of what a woman has said or done to me? I've recently noticed that when I'm on campus or even out in general if I smile at a girl...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you miss the old Avril Lavigne, anyone?

you know..her cool, old little punk style. She was better back then don't you think? she was true to herself like, 'i'm tomboy, I am who I am' but she's all different now. more to girly, that's what it is if anyone ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sexiest combination of skin, hair, and eyes?

so I'm curious to know that guys think is the sexiest combination of a girls hair color, skin color and eye color 1. dark hair, pale skin, blue eyes 2. like hair, tanned skin, brown eyes etc...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

In a semi-relationship(?) seriously needs help and advice. : /

I'm like in a semi relationship with this guy, I'm like in between friend and girlfriend.. our relationship is so complicated > < I mean I'm always thinking am I your girlfriend or am I just a good friend.. when I asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is being pigeon toed THAT horrible?

Okay, so I have been pigeon toed since I was born. Pigeon toed means that you turn your feet inward when you stand, etc. Caused by different things (mine is due to my tibia bones turned inward for example). I don't always...

nanobaby

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do I feel like I need a boyfriend so much?

I'm 19 years old and have dated guys since I was 15. I've been in two serious relationships the first one lasted two years and was mainly during high school and my second one was during my freshmen year of college 2nd...

ekuchic91

Xper 5 Age: 34

Will a girl that used to like you still go out with you after you ignored/rejected her previously?

there is a girl that liked me for one year, and even though I thought she was hot, I wasn't ready for a relationship so every time she tried to talk to me or smile at me I would ignore her blatantly to try and kill her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would you be offended if your boyfriend always says how hot or beautiful girls are on TV?

My boyfriend always has to comment on girls he thinks are hot or pretty on TV. We went to the movies and in a movie we were watching a girl was taking off her shirt and he loudly has to say, "ewww sweet...damnnnn." I mean...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Girl has boyfriend but asks me to lunch?

I was driving this girl crazy in class, making her laugh and punch me, and right after she asked me to lunch. I went with her, but from overhearing her talking to her friend, I discovered she has a boyfriend. Does it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Knowing if a shy girl wants your attention?

What are the signs? I'm the kinda into this girl who at times can be kinda loud (which I don't mind) and make noises that are totally out of her character, after she does it she glances back at me. I really do want to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex is being wishy washy and doesn't know what he wants!

I am trying not to talk to my ex becuase I want him to miss me and realize that he made a mistake. We have been broken up for a week now. He has been saying he is confused and doesn't know what he wants. When I give him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't feel attractive enough for a relationship?

I'm not an attractive girl by media's standards, I have a pretty average face nothing special, although not spectacular. My body is average too, I have small boobs, slimish and big thighs with cellulite =/ I'm not what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

How can I beat a player at his own game? haha

Like you know get him to like me but beat him and take things into my hand ? ha ha like what should I do act bored when he tries to flirt with me? He flirts with a lot of girls and it bugs me now ha ha so how can I get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I've cheated on my boyfriend, what shall I do?

i know this is long but please read, I need serious advice :'(! This sounds absolutely crazy, but I always had a 'thing' for this guy for a very long time (about over a year) every time I saw him I got butterflies and all...

rachellloyd

Xper 5 Age: 32

Earrings! Dangle or Studs?

Do you prefer (either for yourself or others) earrings that dangle or stud earrings and why. :] Me, I like dangle earrings because they jingle when I walk and make your neck look long and elegant. On guys maybe a stud.....

Twilixt

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

I fooled around with a guy from work. What do I do?

The other night I invited a guy from work over. It was just to hangout as friends. We get along really well and everything so I thought why not. Only problem is we had a bit too much to drink and fooled around a bit....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why is a really hot girl talking to me?

I'm an average looking guy. She is in my college class, and she's been calling me every night to talk to me, for the last week sometimes we talked for like 4-5 hours till late at night. She already has a boyfriend and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls describe your dream boyfriend?

it can be physical, personality wise, how he treats you, anything that makes him perfect in your eye's

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Your girlfriend is a "planner". You're the opposite. How would this make you feel?

Is it good or bad? I don't mean a controlling planner. If she is flexible to go with the flow as things come up or situations change. We both have jobs tat make it hard for us to plan trips, but we keep wanting to go...

countygirl

Xper 5 Age: 47