All Questions

How to prove that I'm not flirting?

I've been trying to court this girl. I love her and she loves me too. But the problem of us not being together is because I'm charismatic and a lot of girls talk to me. I've used to flirt with every girl I can, but I've...

imprezA

Xper 4 Age: 34

He couldn't stop staring at my lips when we were talking?

I was talking to a guy friend and putting on lip balm at the same time, and he couldn't stop staring at my lips and was talking TO my lips. His eyes were glued for a good 5-7 seconds (which is really long). Is putting on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls ignore you?

This girl and I have been talking for a couple days now but now she is ignoring me. Why do girls do that and what can you do to get them to talk to you again.

Anonymous

(30-35)

What to do with girl becoming too needy/insecure after sex?

Have been going out with this girl and on the third date ended up back at my place where she spent the night. When she gets home she texts me "had a great time last night" and I responded with a "me too" sorta...

lv-cowboy

Xper 5 Age: 44

Do guys like freckles on a girl??

I have freckles, they are the darker ones all over my face and blue eyes and brown hair...everyone says I'm pretty but the thing is no one has ever mentioned my freckles. except a few guys...does that mean that most guys...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, have you ever approached a guy?

Have you ever approached a guy?

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Dating

Summer fling - over. Is he as heartbroken as I am? How do I get over it?

So here's the story. There was a guy who lives in the town I go to for the summer- a beach town. He was there last year, and at the time I thought he was so attractive, but he never approached me so I went on with my...

starbucksaddict14

Xper 6 Age: 34

What do you do when you're too ugly to date?

I have asked if my looks met guys' physical standards for dating, and every guy said no. Here are some of the answers I got, copied and pasted: You could lose a little weight but you're a butter face at best. Sorry my...

michellebeyonce

Xper 3 Age: 32

Relationships

Is pocket dialing still an accident when it contines to happen?

The guy I like started pocket dialing me a few months ago. It would happen about once or twice a week. Then one day, he dialed me five times. The pocket dialing stopped for about a month shortly after that, and picked up...

purpleangel326

Xper 5 Age: 35

Family & Friends

My step dad hates my boyfriend?

My step-dad flipped out a couple months ago because he found out I spent the night at my boyfriends apartment. He didn't like him anyways because of numerous things, true and false. He threatened to have a restraining...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a smile and wave mean?

I've known this guy for probably over 10 years. But we were never close and I'm only not sure if we've ever had an actual conversation. I saw him today for the first time in over a year. From across the room we locked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

He still misses me and contacts me but has a new girlfriend, I still like him.. what should I do?

To put it simply I casually dated a guy that I met the last 2 weeks of college for about 2 months (LD after the 2 weeks). He was not over his ex girlfriend at the time (a one year previous one, not recent btw) so that's...

hooachoo

Xper 5 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

Strange question, but what does it mean when a guy pats a girl on the back?

so this guy in my class and I have been friendly flirting, he's called me cute and pretty and we look at each other a lot, but the other day he came into class sat next to me and said hey hows it going and then pat me on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls why are you so damn picky, shallow, and stuck up? I know I'm gonna take a lot of crap for this question.

I think I've finally realized why girls are such d-bags to girls. I'm not one because it's not me but it's making me want to not be as nice as I used to be. I've noticed how picky, shallow and stuck up girls are. You have...

snackeyg

Xper 4 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Guy texts you late at night?

so my friends texted me at like 1am, which I was ticked about :P but I talked to him anyway because I couldn't go back to sleep, and some how we started talking about hair, and he said that he thinks my hair is really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Handsome, insecure guys?

What do think when you meet a guy that you think is the hottest guy you've ever seen, but find out he is really insecure? How does that affect your perception of him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a guy follows your eyes when you stop looking at him?

there was this guy we both look at each other sometimes looking away or holding the eye contact. This time we were looking at each other we were walking like on the treadmill sort of opposite both look into each other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm a pretty cute guy but girls ignore me when we walk past each other?

I'm not gonna lie I'm hot but girls who are strangers hardly ever make eye contact with me. Why do you girls ignore good-looking guys it makes us feel bad

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I know if he, deep down inside, thinks he is too good for me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile...I just feel like sometimes he thinks he is too good for me...he snaps at me when I talk, he NEVER comments on my outer beauty (or inner, for that matter), and not to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Why won't my boyfriend mention me?

Okay so on his facebook, where you can say what you're doing or thinking and everyone can see, he has mentioned me on that. But on his status update on MySpace he still has not mentioned me once on there and he won't get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I don't want to talk to my girlfriend?

She's been at the beach for 2 days now and this morning was the first time she's talked to me since Friday night. It's weird though, she texted me and I just didn't want to talk to her...is this weird? I told her Friday...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I never had a girl interested in me before....is that normal?

I'm 21 years old and all through my life I've never had a girl "crush" on me or been interested in me. That's including those years of middle school and high school where it seemed like everyone was getting together....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Are girls untrustworthy?

question pretty much sums it up for me I find I trust girls much too easily.

blooddragon

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guys, what do you think of a sweet, quiet girl who suddenly stands up for herself?

particularly what would you think of a girl you're normally nice to but act out of the ordinary and are rude to, so she, to your surprise, stands up to you and boldly asserts herself? (not in a mean way but in a firm way)...

noonesname

Xper 4 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

I feel like my ex blames me for everything?

I feel like my ex blames me for everything. Shes a complete hypocrite, pointing out what I do wrong yet she does the complete same thing sometimes. Ive admitted I've made mistakes and apologized but she won't even admit...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When you hug/hold someone you are attracted to, does it feel different to you, and can they tell?

Its all in the question really. I think you can tell the difference in hugs from people who are just being friendly and those who have more feelings for you but am not sure. Would close other gender friends feel like a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Difference between being sad, and being hurt.......?

I was wondering what's the difference between being sad, and being hurt? Do they both have the same meaning, different meanings, or something like that? I mean I for one knows there's a difference but I guess I wanted to...

Robertinho

Xper 7 Age: 41

Do I seem like a whore? What am I doing to give off that vibe? Why are guys calling me this?

-VIRGIN. BUT, I've dated a LOT of guys... I've been called a whore a lot recently by quite a bit of guys including my recent ex. My recent Ex & I ended badly with me walking away cause, he has insane...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a girl mean when she says "See you around"?

I got setup by a friend of mine. Went on a blind date. I thought it went very good. At the end when we were about to be apart I told her I really enjoyed her company and would like to see her again. She said sure then...

randomasainguy

Xper 4 Age: 45