All Questions

Why are "needy" men such a turn off to women anyway?

ok, bear with me for a moment, I am a lonely guy, I freely admit it, I am in my own opinion a great guy, I just know I got needs and I am tired of rejections. but for some reason women hate it when men admit it openly....

quantumdefender

Explorer Age: 57

Fashion & Beauty

Massage on period?

I have an appointment tomorrow for a massage and I started my period. can I still go? should I tell the therapist (who is a guy)

Anonymous

(36-45)

How many days do you wait before you call someone back?

Is there really a rule to calling people back? I heard there's the two day rule so I was just wondering how many days you wait untill you call someone back.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

What color eyes do guys prefer?

I was just wondering if the majority of guys liked a certain color of eyes. If so, why do you like that color?

stargazer1

Xper 4 Age: 37

Guys do you like it when a girl puts her head on your chest?

I have a habit of putting my head against my guy friend's chest (I like him) when I put my arms around him, cos I like the feeling of laying my head there, but never really thought about how guys feel about it. Any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My boyfriend's friends think I'm crazy

Ok, so there was a point during our 4 year relationship in which we were fighting all of the time. I must admit, I did some very unbecoming things.as did he. But, of course, they only know his side. Now that we've figured...

NaeNaeHasHeart

Xper 5 Age: 39

Ladies if a girl totally flirted with you when she's drunk does she like you when she's sober?

Ok I recently went on a trip up to maine and I noticed the guys were very laid back. I thought to myself being so laid back how do guys hook up with girls around here. And none of the girls seemed interested in the guys....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What do you guys think of a girl with no panties?

So my guy and were getting ready to get busy for our second time with each other and I had no panties on and when he went to take off my jeans and saw that I had none on, he said, "are you serious you don't have any...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Should I be upset my boyfriend tells other girls their hot via facebook walls and occasionally pokes girls?

So I know my boyfriend loves me very much and he is the sweetest guy when he is around me. However, there is a side to him on facebook where he chats it up with other girls. Most of the time its harmless but one time he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he have to pick me up?

I'm very insecure about my weight so when my boyfriend tries to pick me up I won't let him. but for some reason he is determined though. its like I have to stay on guard lol. What's up with that?

ShadowRose16

Xper 5 Age: 34

Society & Politics

I need an excuse to call her

This is kinda' desperate, but I can't think of any good excuses/reasons to call the girl that I like. Any input would be good.

Anonymous

(30-35)

He said he was thinking about me...does he like me? HELP!

Guys if you text a girl out of the blue a few weeks after a date and say "Hey girl.was just thinking about you.hope your day is going well" do you like/are interested in her?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are a lot of guys so secretly attracted to shy, quiet girls?

I've always been a pretty quiet girl, and most of the time guys don't seem to notice me as anything more than a friend or flirt with me that much. But quite a few guys have admitted to my friends that they think I'm...

LeftEntails

Xper 6 Age: 36

Why do guys touch their girlfriends butts?

Guys does that mean you want your girl sexually or what? My boyfriend was touching my butt the whole time we were together yesterday. Why do you touch your girlfriends butts? please explain.

flowerbeauty21

Xper 3 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriends friends are trying to break us up any advice?

My boyfriend and I have been dating and he doesn't ever seem to make enough time for me yea we hang out every weekend all 3 days and wed for 3hrs to watch 2movies then he goes home well his friends call him whipped or w/e...

girlygirl57

Xper 5 Age: 35

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19... It that okay?

I heard that if you both were underage when you got together, that it would be okay if one was a minor and the other was an adult later into the relationship. Is that true or false?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl smiles at a guy?

Hi girls I'm a single 21 year old male. I like this girl I seen who works in a bar. she usually brings me my drinks she is very friendly. last time she smiled at me when she was on her way to my table. its hard for me to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get guys to not hit on you?

this might sound really conceited of me but I'm asking this question because it's starting to become a problem and I really need some serious answers on this. I get hit on by numerous guys and at the most, 7 in 30...

tokyoqt

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

My friend stole my ex boyfriend whilst I was trying to fix things with him

A couple of weeks ago I bumped into my friend in town, I hadn't talked to her in years from leaving school, so I invited her round my house. She only lives a few doors from me but I didn't get to see her as I was living...

Infinite

Xper 3 Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend has changed.... how do I get her back?

my girlfriend used to be a great girl who thought everything I did was great and didn't care about what I did really. now she gets annoyed by anything I do.( for example childhood habits that are harmless like shaking...

derek1127

Xper 4 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Bringing another girl around ex-girlfriend, what could be the consequences?

So I dated this girl for about 2 months, and we broke up because we moved too fast and she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend of two years. I didn't want to end things but I guess it had to happen. We have been...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Longer labia?

What do guys think about them? My labia is slightly longer and I'm worried it will put guys off. Ive never had any trouble with it before but I'm quite self conscious about it. Guys have commented on my looks and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Have no time to see my boyfriend but don't wanna lose him?

i have a full-time job and I also go to school at night. last semester I had some days on the week when school was off so I could see him. but now I gotta go there every day and we only see each other on weekends. but he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If she likes me, why is she teasing me?

So I've been talking to this girl I like at work (She recently got dumped for another girl). We both recently found out that we like each other. The day she found out that I liked her, she was so ecstatic to see me, it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Unclear relationship?

So I've been sort of seeing this guy, but really I don't know if we're seeing each other. we hang out every so often and whenever at his house we end up physical, etc. but otherwise it feels like a friendship or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Goodbye hug no more...?

There is this girl I have liked for a while and she might have liked me back but I never asked because I am a wimp. Anyway, we used to go out a lot. Not dating though. She would always give me a hug a the end of the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys - How often would you want your girl calling/texting you?

I live an hour and a half away from my boyfriend. We've been dating for 5 months. We try to see each other once a week. He works full time and I work part time. Sometimes we go 2 weeks without seeing each other when our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys like girls that are kind of clingy?

Ill admit that I'm kind of clingy to my boyfriend, and I admitted to him that I know I am. but he says that he doesn't mind. Do guys like girls that are clingy? do you think it really bothers him but he just didn't want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can you tell the difference between a girl who is playing hard to get, and one who is not interested?

Ladies, how can a guy tell the difference between a girl who is playing hard to get and one who is not interested? When you play hard to get, what are some tactics you use/have used or some your friends/sisters/relatives...

Greyeyes

Xper 5 Age: 49

Girl's Behavior

Ladies, in your opinion what is desperation or desperate behavior?

Ladies, what would you define desperate behavior or desperation as? What are some examples of desperation or desperate behavior you have seen, experienced from a guy you were dating, flirting with, in a relationship...

Greyeyes

Xper 5 Age: 49

Snooping. Forgivable or deal breaker?

Have you ever looked through your s/o's things? Checked their email? Spied on their facebook/myspace? Gone through their desk drawers? Checked their computer history? What made you do it? Is it forgivable or a deal...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Guys, how often do you have guys nights out vs. time with your girl?

Do you spend equal time with both your friends and your girlfriend? And what are you doing during guys night anyway? Thanks in advance! :)

Anonymous

(36-45)