Well about a month ago my ex broke up with me. She didn't give a clear reason, mostly "it's me not you", "I don't know", "it's not ankther guy or anything." Of course I was devistated because it was out of the blue. And I really loved this girl. Anyways, now everytime I see her I kinda get this weird feeling of anger and sadness at the same time and I end up having to like do shit tons of physical excercise to kinda blow of steam. But I'm starting to get this urge to just say "fuck you" or something. Straight up. I mean when she walked away she seemed so, okay and kept saying not to make her feel bad, we should be friends, you're a nice guy, I don't want you to be hurt, etc. etc. etc. but I really just kinda want to say "fuck you" for some reason. It's... A weird urge... I can't really explain very well...
- Yes say fuck you.Vote A
- Don't do it, you asshole.Vote B
- Say something elseVote C
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Dude just accept that it's over now. How would you want her to remember you? As a relationship that just didn't work out or as an asshole? Let it go man. I know it's not easy but you gotta let it go especially if you care about her. If you care about her you should want her to be happy in life and to find happiness.
It isn't easy to break up with someone because I was there before too. I think it's natural to get the "it's not you it's me" thing even if it's partially crap. It just shows that she doesn't want to hurt you. It's natural to want to hear all the answers but would that really help you move on? Would that make the situation better? Just remember what you learned from the relationship experience and in the future you'll be able to look at the past with fondness. Most relationships have some good times. Use it to grow and to look forward to more good times in the future.6