Girlfriend broke up with me because I don't want to marry? (Page 2)

Question

I dated my girlfriend for almost 2 years, I'm 24 and she's 27 (just a month from turning 28). The first year was awesome, we had a lot of fun but then things started falling apart. Got a new job where I'm paid very well, and my uncle owns part of the business so I'm sure I'll be stable for a while. My girlfriend though, she has always been working the same job since we ever met and she kinda took it to next level serious once I got this new job. I can't be judged for thinking somewhere deep down she wants long term commitment from me because of my current income. It may be unfair to think so. But trust me the fights have increased and not only me but some of my friends and even my father notices how she became almost obsessed with the idea of marrying me. Our last fight was huge and I nearly broke up with her on the spot because she was acting too controlling. She called me to meet, and out of the blue she puts the ultimatum "if you don't marry me this is simply not going to work" and I told her the truth "I don't want to marry you, at least not now". She said we've broken up. That was yesterday, but today I had a call from her which I didn't answer and honestly I don't think I feel the same way. My dad told me she is about to hit the 30's wall, and that some women get a lot of pressure to lock down a guy, marry and have kids before their biological clock ends and they get old. It makes sense, but I'm still unsure what exactly happened. Opinions?

Browneye57 · Answer

Well, gee, dear old dad was spot-on on this one eh? LOL Consider you dodged a HUGE bullet.  Entitled. Snowflake. Princess. :)

Anonymous · Answer

And this is why I would never date someone younger and waste my time. No offense

Anonymous · Answer

She feels like you should put a ring on it by now by it just being 2 years.. she is too controlling an marriage takes time

sfdghgjkj · Answer

No, this isn't your fault if you're not ready how can she force you!

chris91744 · Answer

Your dad is right. Women age like milk and men age like wine. Time to upgrade.

Anonymous · Answer

If you marry her, you will end up cheating cause she will age very soon while you will still be kind of young. The reason why male should be older is for that only reason, relationship to be stable and the couple to age together.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Sounds ridiculous. I'm sorry that happened to you, man.

Anonymous · Answer

Fake, you're trying to create a dialog about older women wanting to marry at a certain age to rub it in women's faces.

Anonymous · Answer

I think your father is right, she just might want a stable life now, talk to her about it, not mad, talk seriously about it to her.

Intraluminal · Answer

Like your father said.

dodgerBlues · Answer

RUN AWAY DUDE.

Girlfriend broke up with me because I don't want to marry? (Page 2)

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.