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I agree with this, there is a reason they are an ex. And it dosent mean you have to be impolite
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... LOL. So because of ONE woman who was extremely idiotic, you now perform this action? That's irrational. I really wish I was a lesbian because a lot of you guys are dumb and we can't know about how dumb you are until we waste our time interacting with you.
@Anoniemus With all due respect, maybe no one has ever made that kind of impression on you.It wasn't just one woman, it was the time I spent dwelling on the "What ifs...". •What if I said...•What if I gave her this...•What if she feels...•What if I was...Why would I ever want to make someone else feel as low as I did? That's selfish, and down right cruel. I felt like hope was my worst enemy, and quite frankly I dont want that again.Would you rather feel like waking up in the morning is just a task before you put on a fake smile or would you rather grieve then have it end?
Only idiots go through life thinking about possibilities due to a SINGLE circumstance. It makes no sense. What does it matter if you changed something: you can't go back and fix it. Why dwell on it? There's no proof that changing it next time will yield better results.Literally... you make no sense.
@Anoniemus Well why would I jump back into that same situation? isn't the definition of insanity doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results?And it has worked better for me in the long run. It's been working, so I'm getting better results.
-You've only done it once. That's not constantly repeating if you do it again.-Dwelling on "What ifs" is asinine since there are numerous ways a situation could play out. It's useless.-Being cruel and cold to someone after breaking up CAN make them feel LOW. I know why men do this but I think those who do it are stupid as hell and immature.
@Anoniemus So basically you know that WE get hurt and yet you'd rather me, and men in general, to run ahead first into it JUST BECAUSE?That's stupid. If I've experienced it, and other people have experienced it why would I try again?I mean it's stupid of you to think being friends is somehow better for anyone but the person who wanted out. It's like killing their dog and saying "Let's go walk it just like we used to".
You're retarded.Breakups will hurt regardless but to completely be cold towards someone due to selfishness which tends to have a negative effect on the other person is cowardice and pussyish. I don't believe in the Alpha/Beta dynamic but beta males perform such infantile actions instead of recognizing that they have feelings, it's normal to feel pain after a break up, and move on from it. Smart intelligent desirable men don't become cold to their ex because of the break-up: they're emotionally intelligent and break away amicably.No one said anything about being friends with the ex. I said not being a retard and being cold to protect your juvenile insecurity.You're a pussy. Every guy that does this is a pussy and deserves any pain that comes his way.
@Anoniemus How is wanting to do for myself and only myself make me a pussy? I dont owe an ex a good relationship, I don't owe them a single damn word. So I don't have to communicate. You sound like a bitch who fucked up, ruined her relationship, and now wants to play the "good person" by sticking around for the clout and memories. Maybe you've got it twisted, it's not a pussy who tries to be distant from something painful, it's everyone. No one owes your loser ass a discussion on a subject that was ended, and no one deserves a friend.I'll make this perfectly clear. If you break up with me, it's a break and it's a clean one. I'm not a dick in a glass, I'm not your shoulder buddy, and I'm not your "friend". You break up then it needs to be clean and quick, not long winded, not still boyfriend and girlfriend without the sex, it's broken.
Dude I didn’t read it. You’re a loser and men like you. It’s pathetic.Women get rejected and suffer breakups as well. Do we become immature and cold? No. We don’t. It’s a defense mechanism but a dumb one:
@Anoniemus Better than hanging around like a dog or crying about how unfair life is like you.Maybe you need to not be a bitch and maybe your ex will let you be his friend
You’re still talking? I’m glad she did that to you. You don’t know when to shut up. :/
@Anoniemus You came into my comments, why exactly are you responding? Dont you have a nigga to follow around and beg forgiveness for?
They follow me, racist. And I hope the next woman cheats on you with your best friend. Whoops. You don’t have any. :)
Totally agree with you Konabeana
We hide it until we get home. Traitors aren't our friends. Or if we initiated it, then there's a reason for that break up.
I get sad
I do too :(
You are normal not cruel then
I'd like to think I'm not cruel. This world is a very cruel place and one of my greatest fears is becoming numb, apathetic and cruel like it. I think I'd rather die than be like that.
It's sounds like you are both empaths, which is a beautiful thing. It might hurt and really suck but it is soo much better then being able to just shut off
A well developed empath also have the ability to turn ice cold 😉
@Kejaco thank you
That's why we are blue 💙❄🌬🌊
@Unit1 Good point. Hmmm
@unit1 speak for yourself man, I am not blue, I am a positive happy dude
@Kejaco I'm literally blue lol
Do you live in a blue house with a blue window.
@Kejaco humor not found i see.
Is this to avoid feeling sad so you can move forward, or is this simply an unemotional thing?
The thing is stopping to talk is nothing because the relationship has made the person a part of you. You cannot forget the memories you made together. Learn from them and upgrade that's the best. Lol, this is not the best answer but maybee makes sense.
You're weird or at the least rude
Huh? How's that? I'm saying what else do you expect us to do?
Not call my question weird. That not nice that's rude
This guy is right
What I thought
This is true. Especially if it's the female that leaves the male. It's actually an emotional defence used to get over the relationship