How do you deal with your relationship being homewrecked?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé and I were doing great till this girl who was obsessed with me finally got her way and took him away from me. I still can’t believe he left me for her and I resent him for it. She is already his fiancé in a matter of a month and here I am depressed and completely lost. I feel so much anger towards both of them and it just hurts so much. At this point I feel like I will never get over it. I feel like I’m over him but I’m not over what happened and how it happened. It keeps haunting me. That girl who took him from me so terrible and she rubbed it in my face. I hate her so much. She even took my place in the business my ex and I built together. I just can’t handle this anymore. The pain is too much. He was the love of my life and she completely changed him.

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+1 y

This is so true! Thank you for this ❤️ they are absolutely trash and it’s affected me so much especially in terms of my degree and career. It’ll take a while but I hope one day life will be beautiful again. ❤️

[sassy_woman]

Both are them are trash! Can't grasp the fact that there are people like that, but yeah it already happened. Now for you, it's okay to feel so bad about it. Curse them all you want, but the best revenge is to better yourself-- be happier, build your own empire, and strive to be more successful in your career path... I know the situation now is still hard, but I believe you can do it, not now, but eventually girl. Those women who have given trauma by their past partners tend to come out more radiant and beautiful. BE A BAD BITCH!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!

[Asker]

This is so true! Thank you for this ❤️ they are absolutely trash and it’s affected me so much especially in terms of my degree and career. It’ll take a while but I hope one day life will be beautiful again. ❤️

[DaisyAimi]

They are so low... he is not worth it and she is not worth it. Trust me, you deserve much better and a better time will come when he will regret but you moved on with a big life upgrade. I would say, don’t isolate yourself! And make sure to keep on working hard, talking to your friends, looking for opportunities. Do the stuff you really want to do and feel free. Them seeing you more happy than before will be a big punch in their face.

[Asker]

Thank you for these comforting words. I’ve been trying to move on but where I am it’s lockdown because of Covid-19 and it makes everything worse because I have no choice but to be isolated. Hope everything gets better <3

[Hanrej]

Did she really change him or did she see sides of him he hid from you?

I apollogize in advance but I don't think anyone who's happy with what they've got would trade it for somthing or someone else.

How well did you really know your husband?

[Asker]

We were friends for 10 months before we started dating and really go to know each other. The new girl is very young and they have similar careers. He didn’t date for 3 years before he met me and he said he only dated me because he knew I was “the one”. It baffles me that he had a 3 year gap between me and his previous ex and but no gap between me and his new partner.

[Luckycharms12]

His loss in that case. If he leave that easy better now than later.

[Asker]

I guess :/