I can relate. My ex lied to me, deceived and manipulated me many times, I found his dirty secrets few days before breaking up. He was a narcissist who can't bare to be alone and needed me to be with him all the time, but as soon as lock down happened last year, he got emotionally distant but for the sake of avoiding loneliness he kept on calling me. It's been almost 1 year of no contact but he tries few times every month to talk. I literally controlled my anger. Look at his selfishness.
Omg I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. That boys a stupid idiot for doing this to you 😤 just by trying to talk to you randomly he still thinks he can manipulate you what a horrible person
Exactly I had the same feelings. I felt like to beat him and get him arrested. All he cares is about his wants. And I read that your ex cheated on you then emailed you... glad that you ignored her.
I deleted the email and blocked his ass, LOL. No, I didn't bother replying to him either. I wish my exes would try to reach out to me anymore. Especially if they were the reason for the breakup.
@yofuknutz You do realize you can be happy single right? It's called having friends, socializing, and finding ways to distract yourself.
... or maybe that's just me; I don't know. I don't stress over being lonely because I rarely feel that way. If I block an ex I assure you, there's a damn good reason behind it: my mental and emotional health.
I would be like what the fuck do you want you going to come over here and suck my cock yeah I didn't think so get the fuck out of my face what you got something from me what oh and by the way I bang your sister she's way hotter watch the Sparks Fly. Oh and this is between us on this forum I stole my Walkman back she waited to break up with me after I gave her the Walkman as a Christmas gift I stole that shit back like a real man my Army coat with a great cover I said I have stomach pain and I got to go now she called me up later on that evening I don't know what happened it must have been a Fool's Gold it disappears on contact tell your new boyfriend to go buy you a Walkman oh snap the mouth on me. Her new boyfriend got her Knocked Up and left her he was a buckeye looking bastard on the street is angry at you she swallows you whole. Let me tell you people something, you betta hobo your way back to Alabama before you fuck with me I just thought I'd put that out there.
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Who's the rat bastard on here that gave me a down vote 🗳 come on here and show yourself.
I would listen to what the ex had to say, and decide from there. Not everything or everyone warrants a response. I’ve had exes reach out to me out of the blue. I let them talk, and responded politely. Just either don’t answer back or wish them well and leave it at that. Of course this all depends on the Ex in question. I’ve never had a really bad break up, so that’s the reason why I’d hear these guys out if they ever reached out to me. If one of them did me harm, I’d never look back and give them a minute of my time ever again.
Depending the reason for the breakup, I may or may not read the e-mail. Depending on what it says, I would then determine if it is worth communicating. It's one thing if my ex would be trying to coordinate getting/giving things back to their proper owners, it's another if they want to talk.
Oh, crap, I had some that did and one in particular from 18 years ago (she was a virgin) sent me a hand written letter with her scent on it. Now, all the mileage she had since, that scent lost its luster. Once we part, I never look back or go back, and I flush all the bs away too. Walking at the drop of a hat permanently has always been my most guarded strongpoints.
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They can't email me. When its over its completely over. After a break up i do the zero contact thing. So they can't even contact me at all. I dont even care if i need to change number, email and even adress if necessary but ill make sure they can't conctact me never again!
Depending on the reasons of the break up, i assume. My ex did that, because I blocked their number and social media. We explained to each other and went back together for a pretty long time, but in the end, it still wasn't working out on long term. Our second break up was cooler than the first one tho
My ex-fiancé did. She saw me in town a day prior then emails me asking if I would like to meet for lunch and catch up because we had some, “great times together…” I can only remember hell. I responded with, “I have a girlfriend now, and no.” She emailed back but to that email I did not respond and that was that. She was effing hell.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Bitch is blocked and stays blocked. She can keep sucking and hopping on a rich man's dick.
Depends if it was a bad breakup I would probably block, but if amicable and had time to cool and look at things differently might not block and see if we could be friends
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I hope she does, to pay me back the money she borrowed 7 years ago. I could use it.
Shake my head and feel sorry for them. Unless ofc I actually want to communicate with them, it's inportant to be honest with yourself about such things.
If it was THAT soon after we broke up, no way I would answer it. It's different if they reached out a few years later or something, but the wound is still fresh 3 days later.
It depends on the reason why you guys broke up so if he hurt me soo much and u r trying to forget about him why should you disturb ur peace of mind knowing u r the one in pain
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