How would you feel if your ex emailed you?

[xb1345]

You break up with your ex and block his/her number and all social media etc. 3 days later they message you on email loool. What would you do?

Keep talking to them over email

Ignore and block email

Other

[Azura_88]

I can relate.
My ex lied to me, deceived and manipulated me many times, I found his dirty secrets few days before breaking up. He was a narcissist who can't bare to be alone and needed me to be with him all the time, but as soon as lock down happened last year, he got emotionally distant but for the sake of avoiding loneliness he kept on calling me. It's been almost 1 year of no contact but he tries few times every month to talk. I literally controlled my anger. Look at his selfishness.

[xb1345]

Omg I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. That boys a stupid idiot for doing this to you 😤 just by trying to talk to you randomly he still thinks he can manipulate you what a horrible person

[Azura_88]

Yeah because he got no better options and according to his logic I will be flattered by seeing that oh it's been a year and he's still trying. -_-

[xb1345]

Now he realised how great you are but he can't have you. You deserve so much better 😉 if you need help to stop him talking to you I'd be happy to help

[Azura_88]

Thank you so much.. I am giving him zero response since last 10 months. I'm constantly blocking him. He has slowed down now.

[xb1345]

One day he'll fully stop ✋🙄 I feel like beating him up for you 😂 this idiot is basically harassing you

[Azura_88]

Exactly I had the same feelings. I felt like to beat him and get him arrested. All he cares is about his wants. And I read that your ex cheated on you then emailed you... glad that you ignored her.

[xb1345]

People like this are just very selfish... yes I continue to ignore her. She also called my place of work -_-

[Azura_88]

That's ridiculous. They're entitled ones. Think they can control us even after breaking our trust and overall interest in them.

[Azura_88]

*they think

[devilman666]

@xb1345 I wish I could beat and imprison your ex-gf, people like that are the worst! She's literally harassing you.

[anon1903]

Knowing my boyfriend, he'd probably do something like this.

[xb1345]

My ex did do this to me 😂

[anon1903]

Did you reply

[xb1345]

No I ignored it :/

[anon1903]

I'd be kinda hurt if the break up was a recent one

[xb1345]

Yeah she cheated on me so that's why I never bothered with her again...

[anon1903]

Then defo ghost her. The nerve of trying to contact you.

[xb1345]

she's just confusing me lol but yeah ghosting her forever

[anon1903]

Don't respond to her. Cheaters ain't worth shit.

[xb1345]

Yeah you're totally right

[anon1903]

PS. Hot anime girl in picture 😍

[xb1345]

😂haha yeah anime girls are the best right

[anon1903]

Fictional characters are so much better

[anon1903]

Any favorites?

[xb1345]

7sins Elizabeth, SAO Asuna, AOT Misaka to name a few 🥵😂

[anon1903]

My kind of guy 🤣👍

[anon1903]

I like most guys from Free! iwatobi swim club

[anon1903]

And shu Sakamaki 💕😩😍

[xb1345]

my type of girl 😂😂 I've not watched them anime but I can see why you like them characters 🥵😂

[anon1903]

Reverse harem always gets me going

[anon1903]

We should be nicest of friends then

[xb1345]

Let me join your harem 😂😂😂 jks

[xb1345]

Omg ikr sounds like we would

[anon1903]

Lets shake on it

*Holding a hand formally*

[xb1345]

😂😂😂that's funny
I agree to your handshake
*holding a hand formally*

[anon1903]

*shaking*

[Cynicaldreamer]

One of my exes actually did that to me-

I deleted the email and blocked his ass, LOL. No, I didn't bother replying to him either.
I wish my exes would try to reach out to me anymore. Especially if they were the reason for the breakup.

[xb1345]

Keep them idiots blocked they don't deserve us 😤😒🤧 stupid people think they can email us elites like that

[yofuknutz]

What a winning strategy and we wonder why kodokushi applies 🤔 to you guys.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@yofuknutz You do realize you can be happy single right? It's called having friends, socializing, and finding ways to distract yourself.

... or maybe that's just me; I don't know. I don't stress over being lonely because I rarely feel that way. If I block an ex I assure you, there's a damn good reason behind it: my mental and emotional health.

[yofuknutz]

Was it really that bad

[Anonymous]

I would be like what the fuck do you want you going to come over here and suck my cock yeah I didn't think so get the fuck out of my face what you got something from me what oh and by the way I bang your sister she's way hotter watch the Sparks Fly. Oh and this is between us on this forum I stole my Walkman back she waited to break up with me after I gave her the Walkman as a Christmas gift I stole that shit back like a real man my Army coat with a great cover I said I have stomach pain and I got to go now she called me up later on that evening I don't know what happened it must have been a Fool's Gold it disappears on contact tell your new boyfriend to go buy you a Walkman oh snap the mouth on me. Her new boyfriend got her Knocked Up and left her he was a buckeye looking bastard on the street is angry at you she swallows you whole. Let me tell you people something, you betta hobo your way back to Alabama before you fuck with me I just thought I'd put that out there.

[Opinion Owner]

Who's the rat bastard on here that gave me a down vote 🗳 come on here and show yourself.

[Crissy_J]

I would listen to what the ex had to say, and decide from there. Not everything or everyone warrants a response. I’ve had exes reach out to me out of the blue. I let them talk, and responded politely. Just either don’t answer back or wish them well and leave it at that. Of course this all depends on the Ex in question. I’ve never had a really bad break up, so that’s the reason why I’d hear these guys out if they ever reached out to me. If one of them did me harm, I’d never look back and give them a minute of my time ever again.

[Xitomyth]

Depending the reason for the breakup, I may or may not read the e-mail. Depending on what it says, I would then determine if it is worth communicating. It's one thing if my ex would be trying to coordinate getting/giving things back to their proper owners, it's another if they want to talk.

[blank_expression]

Oh, crap, I had some that did and one in particular from 18 years ago (she was a virgin) sent me a hand written letter with her scent on it. Now, all the mileage she had since, that scent lost its luster. Once we part, I never look back or go back, and I flush all the bs away too. Walking at the drop of a hat permanently has always been my most guarded strongpoints.

[Anonymous]

They can't email me. When its over its completely over. After a break up i do the zero contact thing. So they can't even contact me at all. I dont even care if i need to change number, email and even adress if necessary but ill make sure they can't conctact me never again!

[MaelE]

Depending on the reasons of the break up, i assume.
My ex did that, because I blocked their number and social media. We explained to each other and went back together for a pretty long time, but in the end, it still wasn't working out on long term. Our second break up was cooler than the first one tho

[Sarahr123]

If I were married then I’d tell them I’m married and they should not contact me.

I wouldn’t do anything that would upset my husband. My marriage would come first.

[xb1345]

Thats so cute 🤭 very hard to find loyal girls these days

[MannMitAntworten]

My ex-fiancé did. She saw me in town a day prior then emails me asking if I would like to meet for lunch and catch up because we had some, “great times together…” I can only remember hell. I responded with, “I have a girlfriend now, and no.” She emailed back but to that email I did not respond and that was that. She was effing hell.

[Anonymous]

Bitch is blocked and stays blocked. She can keep sucking and hopping on a rich man's dick.

Or she can go and join him

[Walt832]

Since when you have picked up your flip flops with your hands from your backyard?

Nevaaaaaa.

Once is done is done and never look back. I will block her and report it as spam. 😂.

[IDontBelieveIt]

Depends if it was a bad breakup I would probably block, but if amicable and had time to cool and look at things differently might not block and see if we could be friends

[Anonymous]

I hope she does, to pay me back the money she borrowed 7 years ago. I could use it.

[xb1345]

My ex still has my money 🤧

[tupacs_only_wife]

my ex wouldn't be too stupid to do that but if he did I'd pour all my negative energy into him then block him.

[Agape93]

Call the police. A no contact order necessitates NO CONTACT. He broke it and would be going to prison.

[Brianbrake]

that is extreme

[Agape93]

What, calling the cops? Or him breaking a no contact order?

[exitseven]

I would at least read it to see what it was all about. If she was just sending pictures of her and her new boyfriend I would add her to my blacklist.

[DiscomfortZone]

Shake my head and feel sorry for them. Unless ofc I actually want to communicate with them, it's inportant to be honest with yourself about such things.

[Lyrem_]

I would check the email but won’t respond or do anything about it

[CaptainCuddles]

If it was THAT soon after we broke up, no way I would answer it. It's different if they reached out a few years later or something, but the wound is still fresh 3 days later.

[banice]

It depends on the reason why you guys broke up so if he hurt me soo much and u r trying to forget about him why should you disturb ur peace of mind knowing u r the one in pain