My brother is going through a breakup and is leaning on me?

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So long story short, my brother is going through a rough break up of a few years. They were never really happy in the relationship, it was toxic from the beginning and they spent more time fighting than being together and happy. Now that she has ended it and said its for the better he is heavily leaning on me to help him get through it. This happened the last time they broke up and i constantly was talking to him helping him through it just for them to get back together again. But this time it is driving me insane. From the minute i wake up he is texting me for advice. if i dont reply he follows me around the house. if i go to work he texts me. when i come home he wants me to stay up. if it was that he just wants advice then fine but he keeps repeating the same things over and over again and i keep saying the same things over and over again. literally from the minute i wake up its like i have to baby him. I’m younger and have never been in love so maybe its because i don’t understand the heartbreak- or maybe i’m just a bitch but i am so tired and mentally drained from it. i’ve literally been spending every second with him and he doesn’t even try to move on with his life. he’s stopped going to work, doesn’t go out doesn’t do anything except sit at home like a bum and wallow about it. This girl isn’t worth all this headache and isn’t worth even keeping a relationship and i can not understand why he feels like he can't do better than her

Am i wrong for feeling so tired of this shit and wanting to tell him to move on himself and leave me alone
My brother is going through a breakup and is leaning on me?
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