How can I get over the feeling of being too lonely after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

I feel really lonely now that I've broken up with my most recent ex-boyfriend. I'm constantly struck by the need to be pampered and spoiled by someone. Due to my tendency to talk a lot, I am constantly tempted to share how my day has been with someone. I made an effort to fight off the loneliness by engaging in activities I enjoy, such as listening to music, reading comic books, and dancing, but nothing seemed to work. At the end of the day I always ended up crying myself to sleep due to the loneliness. furthermore, I'm feeling depress lately.
As an aside, I don't have many close friends, and even if I had, the most of them lived far away and were always busy. I've been battling this loneliness for a while now; I need support since I can't do it on my own.

[Danny_dan92]

By accepting the circumstance for what it is.


I been single for 3 years now.


It’s not that hard to be alone, do shit that makes you happy and the rest comes naturally

[Asker]

If you are able to be single for the whole 3 years than it means your not feeling extreme loneliness like I'm feeling at the moment.

[Danny_dan92]

You feel that way because maybe that’s your personality.

You’re one of those individuals that NEEDS to be in a relationship to be “happy” let me ask you this though, was that relationship toxic? Especially towards the end? Cause if so, legitimate question.

Was it worth it? Was all the arguments and shit worth your “happiness” ?

[Asker]

my most recent relationship was not toxic at all and we were in a good term.

[Danny_dan92]

Well then think of it this way, based on what I gathered.

Seems like he broke it off with you, you should be happy he respected you enough to do that instead of absolutely destroy you by say (cheating on you) that would have crushed you

[Asker]

I see... Hopefully I'll get through this loneliness sooner or later.

[Danny_dan92]

It takes time

[xJeremyx]

Acknowledge the grief of ending the relationship. Do not disregard it. Allow it some time to heal.

Look at the things you still have, and be thankful for them every single day.

Thats similar to how I hung on after breaking up.

[nickaboy]

Embrace it go gym