Man broke up with me but refused to have break up sex? How is that possible?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a guy the last two months but yesterday he told me that we have to stop seeing each other. The reason is not something I will discuss now (long story). But he told me that even now he still wants me and it is very difficult for him to tell me to finish everything. So, my suggestion was to have sex for the last time. Like a goodbye sex but he refused. How is that possible? I mean we had a great time in bed and he has admitted that. Why not for a man to want to have a goodbye sex when he is the one that wants to breaks up but still feels the attraction.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Not everyone wants break up sex. I’ve been in a lot of relationships and I never had break up sex even if it was offered. Some people just want to walk away from it all and start the rebuilding process of their emotions

[Anonymous]

Because he was afraid you would not break up if he has sex again and in his mind he made a choice before.

[AsaKyo]

Why tf would you have sex with someone you're done with? Lmao

[NamerOfStars]

Sex releases powerful bonding hormones, which some people are VERY vulnerable to. If he's trying to distance himself from you, sex would be counterproductive.

[20yearsolder]

How is that possible? Because he's tired of your ass. Break up sex is not mandatory honey

[JPresidente]

I would have done it. But hey, every guy is different. He may gotten his heart broken. If you want to discuss further you can message me.

[AdithyaR]

Attraction doesn't necessarily mean he'd sleep with you every chance. Maybe the sex would have made it harder for him to move, this he refused it.

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s worried you are trying to use sex to make him stay in a relationship

[Anonymous]

oh so you're whining because you couldn't whore yourself out. good to know

[Anonymous]

maybe he matured...

[LazerBean]

Because he's decent.