What to do when going crazy through a divorce?

[Hannahbanana94]

Husband divorced me and I feel like I’ve hit rock bottom. I have a son so I’m trying so hard to be strong but I can’t. I loSt 10 pounds in 2 weeks I can’t stop crying. I feel achy and sick all day. I keep looking at the past trying to dissect it and blaming myself. If I would have not yelled, if I would have just been more patient and understanding I wouldn’t have pushed him away. He told people the reason he left me was because I always yelled and yelled in situations and never accepted his answers. His answers were never sufficient and that I wouldn’t stop. But in my defense I always felt lied to. So I would harass and scream a lot. But there were a lot of fighting moments but now I can only remember the times that were my fault. I am still madly in love with him but he acts heartless like he could care less. How do I overcome this feeling? Why am I constantly blaming myself? Is this all my fault?

[Avicenna]

It’s hoibgvto becdifgicult, no doubt about that. But lean on your friends and family snd try to distract yourself.

[Philyouup]

it’s hard , ans your heart and mind conflict. You are a prisoner inside your own mind.


i’m 6 years post divorce and i still struggle with depression. not just from the divorce , but it did t help at all.


hunker down and it will pass.

[Summeroflove]

It’s not good to harass and scream. No. But he also from your past questions seems to really just treat you like shit.

When someone treats you bad it’s hard not to be angry. When you have tried everything snd he refuses to love you or work things out.

[Stevefiveo]

The divorce is the final straw. Let your husband go. Make plans for you and your son.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why did you feel like you were being lied to?

[Hannahbanana94]

Situation example- he came home smelled like alcohol at 2 am. Asked him if he was drinking and he said no. I started yelling cause he was lying obviously then he was like oh yeah I had a small drink. Situation 2- he had taken my phone and was trying to back it up to the computer to snoop. I started yelling at him and asking why he took my phone and he said bc he was setting up a new phone for me as a surprise. I found out later it was a lie and he was trying to backup my phone. These were after he had already mentioned divorce but many situations like this. Or times that he will call me a whore and I start yelling or fighting. But now when I look back I can’t help but to think I should’ve handled situations better and he would have been. Better and wouldn’t have left me. I’m also 2 months pregnant right now and he found this out after he had mentioned divorce and he didn’t give a damn. I am so broke